"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Evolution To Becoming a Man Dakid style

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Alright. I've decided to start a journal and will be sticking to it this time. Last time I didn't come to the site and it got locked. I just want to have a better life. I've been on and off this site. I'm a AFC not that bad tho, but I want to change live a better off life. Really my life is pretty ****ty at the moment grades sucks, love life sucks, house life sucks. Only way to change that is me. I need to change. I want to finally read the DJB even tho I've been here a year. I still haven't read it pretty sad. Going to prom stag but it's only jr but my excuse which no one else is bringing dates so I should just go stag which is pretty stupid. Oh well!

Here are some of my Goals and things I want this journal help me accomplish.

Study For Sat
Read DJB's
Hook Up with someone
Approach
Get a job
Get better grades in school
Eat healthier
Continue working out for football
Lose some bodyfat not necessarily weight
Better Relationship with my parents
Find out how I'm going get a car.

Thanks to anyone who cares and all that just read for fun. Take my advice. Get some incititive (Sp) and get off your ass. Cause it hit me today man that life is all about having fun and getting some
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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March 30th 2005

Okay today I got a interview call from Circuit city. So I got an interview on Friday at noon. It'z about 20min away also need to find a bus that goes that way.


Also today I went looking for an outfit for prom. I'm probly wearing a white 2 button or 4 button tux with either an all white vest, pink vest or baby blue vest. Haven't decided yet.

I need to start my homework. I have math 40 questions to do. Earth Science 80 questions to do and French about 30 questions to do plus writing. Also I'm on vacation for until sunday that's why I have so much work. THat would be crazy if it was do tommorrow:eek:

I worked out today. I have anonther journal for this at http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=381365

I need to also start studying this big ass 900pg SAT book that I have collecting dust for the past 2 days.

Also I think I might want to start PE cause I'm avgerage according to stuff I've read and what my doctors tells me but I want to be bigger lol. I don't know if I should since I'm on 16 going on 17. Maybe just kegels.
 

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Damn I just found out that I need to get my working papers before I can accept that damn Circuit City job. So since I go to a private school. I have to go to this public school by my house with my SS card, Birth Certificate and Doctor's note. Damn so much to do tommorrow.

Checklist for tommorrow



Get working papers
Read or Do 20 Pages out of the SAT book
Do my workout
Start and complete One of my homework assignments
Get fitted for my tux and put the deposit down
Read atleast 5 articles from the bible
Wash and press a shirt and pants for my job interview
Relax and have fun.

That's alot of stuff to do tommorrow. Oh well I'll get it done one way or the other.



Blue is for what to do. Red is for fail. Green will be for attempted but failed or half accomplished
 

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you know what, man

this is the best thread i've seen in a while

no complaining, no whining, just someone setting down their goals and going for it

and indirectly, this is all tied back to becoming a DJ

you're ahead of the game
 

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Originally posted by alphawolfx
you know what, man

this is the best thread i've seen in a while

no complaining, no whining, just someone setting down their goals and going for it

and indirectly, this is all tied back to becoming a DJ

you're ahead of the game
Thanks man. It hit me this week. Life is to short. Just can't sit back look at the screen and wait for me to become a pimp. I got to set out and get it. Little at a time. baby steps and I'll get their Being a DJ in no time. Cause first you got to fix yourself before you start worrying about gettin girls. Wisdom comes with age I guess
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Post something intresting. not boring mumbo jumbo. No offense

Get-Er-Done
What do you suggest.
 

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Okay today I got a interview call from Circuit city. So I got an interview on Friday at noon. It'z about 20min away also need to find a bus that goes that way.
Make updates that have points
 

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Originally posted by DA KID




Get working papers
Read or Do 20 Pages out of the SAT book
Do my workout
Start and complete One of my homework assignments
Get fitted for my tux and put the deposit down
Read atleast 5 articles from the bible
Wash and press a shirt and pants for my job interview
Relax and have fun.

Blue is for what to do. Red is for fail. Green will be for attempted but failed or half accomplished and orange is for done
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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congratulations man, this is a great thread, so i compliment on you! i hope that you'll manage to satisfy each one of your goals!
keep in touch and my regards!
 

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April 1st Checklist

Go to Job Interview

Start and Finish All Hw

Workout

Spend 15 minutes reading DJB.

Attempt to Get working papers

Wash clothes for trip
 
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Good luck with the job interview, just remeber to keep cool and answer questions confidently.
 

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Got back from the job interview. They told me they'll call me back if I'm hired. Anyway I applied for target and walbuams anyway just in case.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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