"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright. I've decided to start a journal and will be sticking to it this time. Last time I didn't come to the site and it got locked. I just want to have a better life. I've been on and off this site. I'm a AFC not that bad tho, but I want to change live a better off life. Really my life is pretty ****ty at the moment grades sucks, love life sucks, house life sucks. Only way to change that is me. I need to change. I want to finally read the DJB even tho I've been here a year. I still haven't read it pretty sad. Going to prom stag but it's only jr but my excuse which no one else is bringing dates so I should just go stag which is pretty stupid. Oh well!

Here are some of my Goals and things I want this journal help me accomplish.

Study For Sat
Read DJB's
Hook Up with someone
Approach
Get a job
Get better grades in school
Eat healthier
Continue working out for football
Lose some bodyfat not necessarily weight
Better Relationship with my parents
Find out how I'm going get a car.

Thanks to anyone who cares and all that just read for fun. Take my advice. Get some incititive (Sp) and get off your ass. Cause it hit me today man that life is all about having fun and getting some
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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March 30th 2005

Okay today I got a interview call from Circuit city. So I got an interview on Friday at noon. It'z about 20min away also need to find a bus that goes that way.


Also today I went looking for an outfit for prom. I'm probly wearing a white 2 button or 4 button tux with either an all white vest, pink vest or baby blue vest. Haven't decided yet.

I need to start my homework. I have math 40 questions to do. Earth Science 80 questions to do and French about 30 questions to do plus writing. Also I'm on vacation for until sunday that's why I have so much work. THat would be crazy if it was do tommorrow:eek:

I worked out today. I have anonther journal for this at http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=381365

I need to also start studying this big ass 900pg SAT book that I have collecting dust for the past 2 days.

Also I think I might want to start PE cause I'm avgerage according to stuff I've read and what my doctors tells me but I want to be bigger lol. I don't know if I should since I'm on 16 going on 17. Maybe just kegels.
 

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Damn I just found out that I need to get my working papers before I can accept that damn Circuit City job. So since I go to a private school. I have to go to this public school by my house with my SS card, Birth Certificate and Doctor's note. Damn so much to do tommorrow.

Checklist for tommorrow



Get working papers
Read or Do 20 Pages out of the SAT book
Do my workout
Start and complete One of my homework assignments
Get fitted for my tux and put the deposit down
Read atleast 5 articles from the bible
Wash and press a shirt and pants for my job interview
Relax and have fun.

That's alot of stuff to do tommorrow. Oh well I'll get it done one way or the other.



Blue is for what to do. Red is for fail. Green will be for attempted but failed or half accomplished
 

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you know what, man

this is the best thread i've seen in a while

no complaining, no whining, just someone setting down their goals and going for it

and indirectly, this is all tied back to becoming a DJ

you're ahead of the game
 

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Originally posted by alphawolfx
you know what, man

this is the best thread i've seen in a while

no complaining, no whining, just someone setting down their goals and going for it

and indirectly, this is all tied back to becoming a DJ

you're ahead of the game
Thanks man. It hit me this week. Life is to short. Just can't sit back look at the screen and wait for me to become a pimp. I got to set out and get it. Little at a time. baby steps and I'll get their Being a DJ in no time. Cause first you got to fix yourself before you start worrying about gettin girls. Wisdom comes with age I guess
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Post something intresting. not boring mumbo jumbo. No offense

Get-Er-Done
What do you suggest.
 

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Okay today I got a interview call from Circuit city. So I got an interview on Friday at noon. It'z about 20min away also need to find a bus that goes that way.
Make updates that have points
 

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Originally posted by DA KID




Get working papers
Read or Do 20 Pages out of the SAT book
Do my workout
Start and complete One of my homework assignments
Get fitted for my tux and put the deposit down
Read atleast 5 articles from the bible
Wash and press a shirt and pants for my job interview
Relax and have fun.

Blue is for what to do. Red is for fail. Green will be for attempted but failed or half accomplished and orange is for done
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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congratulations man, this is a great thread, so i compliment on you! i hope that you'll manage to satisfy each one of your goals!
keep in touch and my regards!
 

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April 1st Checklist

Go to Job Interview

Start and Finish All Hw

Workout

Spend 15 minutes reading DJB.

Attempt to Get working papers

Wash clothes for trip
 
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Good luck with the job interview, just remeber to keep cool and answer questions confidently.
 

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Got back from the job interview. They told me they'll call me back if I'm hired. Anyway I applied for target and walbuams anyway just in case.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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