"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Evidence that girls give bad advice.

TubularBells28

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Evidence that girls give bad advice. (fixed link)

As a University student, I was expecting to come across an intelligent, well thought-out article on how to pick up members of the opposite sex. What I didn't expect was some of the drivel that this girl wrote about:
http://www.unlvrebelyell.com/article.php?ID=909

No wonder that people say girls give bad advice concerning their sex.

Fixed link, oopsie.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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why not?

Corected link: http://www.unlvrebelyell.com/article.php?ID=909

I've read the article and I don't see why this is a bad advice. The author did mention that this is geared towards HB6-8..who is not having that much of the great time in the club.
One thing I did learn in my limited field experience is to always use direct game with HB's8 and below.
The author downplayed the role of body language...I would start looking for some positive IOI before I spend 4 bucks on a drink...
Other then that..she is right on the money! Attract...rapport...kiss close.

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Only scanned it and it seemed like the usual drivel.

this: pick a girl that looks like she's not having fun
I am however interested in this topic and might try it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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And what is even more of a shame is how many desperate University guys are gonna take that advice.
 

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More horsepoo...

Yah sure, go ahead and tell her how she is the most beautiful woman in the place, keep at it if you will! And watch how she becomes 'too good' for you ;-)

Buying drinks and dinner... i need someone to tell me that? Like i'm not gonna be the one and only person deciding wether i'm gonna spend money on someone? Please... show my commitment? Give me a break :rolleyes: .

I'm beginning to understand the concept of a 40 year old virgin with stuff like this out there :-D
 

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Step 1: Pick the right girl. Yes, target the right girl(s) for you.

Step 2: Single her out. Or single them out. Don`t let their friends stop you. Roll right on in and tell them that you`re borrowing their friend for awhile and then game your target in isolation.

Step 3: Make the connection. Show that you`re a real man, with confidence humour, self-control, etc. and give her the opportunity of being with you or not.

Step 4: Man-up. See Step 3 and mix with gaming other chicks. If any of them protest tell them, with a ****y grin, that you`ve only just met and already they`re getting possessive, and then bust on them for that, etc.

Step 5: The clincher. If she doesn`t or can`t follow your lead and pacing then others are waiting....

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 
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