"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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everything seems great but my gut tell me otherwise

dmatter

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so i have been with my girlfriend for 7 months, and everything is good we have fun, we have great sex where she has screaming orgasms, shes tells me she loves me and does alot of things for me she bought me a flatscreen tv for christmas a 42 inch sharp! calls me consistently and is always first to call but for some reason I feel as though she is hiding something from me or doing me dirty somehow, it is a gut feeling and it is driving me crazy. she claims to be completly honest to me and has caught me lying to her a couple of times so i shouldnt be complaining, but then she told me of a friend she had that is also her older brothers friend and theyve known eachother for years, and when he broke up with his gf and she broke up with the one prior to me they ended up having sex one night. then he got back with his girl the next day and they stopped talking, this was back in april, then they became friends again but then stoppe once me and her got more serious, this guy keeps popping back into her life by texting her on and off and then this guy texted her yest i couldnt read all of it cause she snatched it out of my hand and which lead to a big arguement of her denying happend between them except for that night, but i remember the texts saying that she was pretty and she replied with something about how he hurt her.


so i dont have any concrete evidence that something did happen or is happening but i feel it as a gut instinct, that she is hiding something, so my question is should i try to investigate further for more proof or just let it go and i truly have nothing to worry about?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dmatter said:
...but i remember the texts saying that she was pretty and she replied with something about how he hurt her.

should i try to investigate further for more proof or just let it go and i truly have nothing to worry about?
Investigate further. Girls tend to desire what evades them. I talk on a daily basis to a girl I went out and nailed a few times. She has her wedding date set, the groom moved from overseas as she's a doctor and it's hard for her to move abroad, and still she calls/IM everyday saying that I'm the one she wanted.

BTW, this is not self-promotion as not only I find her behavior despicable it's completely imaginary. We went out like 5-6 times, always on a purely sexual basis, but she still dreams that I'm the perfect man for her.

So investigate and confront her if you find anything. If the time to confront her arrives let me know as there are plenty of DOs and DON'Ts...

Also, I'm not saying that my case is your case. I know you have a lot of your mind know to be worrying even more...

Good luck...
 
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