"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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everything seems great but my gut tell me otherwise

dmatter

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so i have been with my girlfriend for 7 months, and everything is good we have fun, we have great sex where she has screaming orgasms, shes tells me she loves me and does alot of things for me she bought me a flatscreen tv for christmas a 42 inch sharp! calls me consistently and is always first to call but for some reason I feel as though she is hiding something from me or doing me dirty somehow, it is a gut feeling and it is driving me crazy. she claims to be completly honest to me and has caught me lying to her a couple of times so i shouldnt be complaining, but then she told me of a friend she had that is also her older brothers friend and theyve known eachother for years, and when he broke up with his gf and she broke up with the one prior to me they ended up having sex one night. then he got back with his girl the next day and they stopped talking, this was back in april, then they became friends again but then stoppe once me and her got more serious, this guy keeps popping back into her life by texting her on and off and then this guy texted her yest i couldnt read all of it cause she snatched it out of my hand and which lead to a big arguement of her denying happend between them except for that night, but i remember the texts saying that she was pretty and she replied with something about how he hurt her.


so i dont have any concrete evidence that something did happen or is happening but i feel it as a gut instinct, that she is hiding something, so my question is should i try to investigate further for more proof or just let it go and i truly have nothing to worry about?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dmatter said:
...but i remember the texts saying that she was pretty and she replied with something about how he hurt her.

should i try to investigate further for more proof or just let it go and i truly have nothing to worry about?
Investigate further. Girls tend to desire what evades them. I talk on a daily basis to a girl I went out and nailed a few times. She has her wedding date set, the groom moved from overseas as she's a doctor and it's hard for her to move abroad, and still she calls/IM everyday saying that I'm the one she wanted.

BTW, this is not self-promotion as not only I find her behavior despicable it's completely imaginary. We went out like 5-6 times, always on a purely sexual basis, but she still dreams that I'm the perfect man for her.

So investigate and confront her if you find anything. If the time to confront her arrives let me know as there are plenty of DOs and DON'Ts...

Also, I'm not saying that my case is your case. I know you have a lot of your mind know to be worrying even more...

Good luck...
 
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