"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Everything great, but then this ****?

SHChamp

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I've been dating this girl for about 5 months now and things seem absolutely great. She cooks almost daily, invests all her time in me, always wants to kiss, cuddle and be overly sexual. Everything checks out with this girl and she seems completely infatuated with me, we've had sex several times but ever since a week ago she's been withholding sex completely.

I wondered if it was her period, but that's not the case and is generally trying to dry **** and turn me on every time and in the end not wanting to ****. I mean, I know there is some resistance always and you have to lead her there, but she absolutely flat out refuses to have sex.

Normally speaking I would be able to deal with this, but the fasting period starts in two days, she was well aware I couldn't do anything for a month because of it. Today she's been all over me, getting extremely sexual and make out sessions, but as soon as things get heated she cuts it off. Tonight was the last night we'd be able to have sex and she decided to go home anyway. And for some strange reason she kepts saying that I would forget her once the fasting started and that she doesn't know what I am thinking or feel about her?

What do you guys make of this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Give her a taste of her own mediicne. When she starts getting extremely sexual cut her off like she does to you. She her reacton. If she does not bang you the next time after that you need a new girl.
 

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If you only have one girl, this is how your life will be. A successful seducer pursues more than one woman.
 

JohnChops

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bigneil said:
If you only have one girl, this is how your life will be. A successful seducer pursues more than one woman.
He is exclusively dating this girl, you're going to pursue another girl whilst in a relationship? I don't think so.

Unless you guys are not official, then go get a new girl.

Usually 5 months is when the honeymoon phase ends, thats when my relationships go down hill and I end them. Maybe she is getting bored or she found someone better all of a sudden.
 
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