"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Everything great, but then this ****?

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I've been dating this girl for about 5 months now and things seem absolutely great. She cooks almost daily, invests all her time in me, always wants to kiss, cuddle and be overly sexual. Everything checks out with this girl and she seems completely infatuated with me, we've had sex several times but ever since a week ago she's been withholding sex completely.

I wondered if it was her period, but that's not the case and is generally trying to dry **** and turn me on every time and in the end not wanting to ****. I mean, I know there is some resistance always and you have to lead her there, but she absolutely flat out refuses to have sex.

Normally speaking I would be able to deal with this, but the fasting period starts in two days, she was well aware I couldn't do anything for a month because of it. Today she's been all over me, getting extremely sexual and make out sessions, but as soon as things get heated she cuts it off. Tonight was the last night we'd be able to have sex and she decided to go home anyway. And for some strange reason she kepts saying that I would forget her once the fasting started and that she doesn't know what I am thinking or feel about her?

What do you guys make of this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Give her a taste of her own mediicne. When she starts getting extremely sexual cut her off like she does to you. She her reacton. If she does not bang you the next time after that you need a new girl.
 
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If you only have one girl, this is how your life will be. A successful seducer pursues more than one woman.
 
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bigneil said:
If you only have one girl, this is how your life will be. A successful seducer pursues more than one woman.
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He is exclusively dating this girl, you're going to pursue another girl whilst in a relationship? I don't think so.

Unless you guys are not official, then go get a new girl.

Usually 5 months is when the honeymoon phase ends, thats when my relationships go down hill and I end them. Maybe she is getting bored or she found someone better all of a sudden.
 
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