"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Everyone's different - but how long did it take you to "get it?"

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How long did it take you to get a good grip on all of this dating stuff? i know there aren't many people that are actuall REAL DJ'S, but I know alot of you "get it" to a good extent.

Just when I think i'm getting things....I mess other things up.....

There is just so much information out there....

I know I've made massive improvements, but damn...I'm a logn way off beign a DJ.

My other question....how many of you went out and over night started doing CA's and sarging and datign heaps of girls?......I'm slowing putting the pieces together and appraoching mroe and more...but I didn't go out and pimp it right away...it has taken me a gradual build up...whbich is not how I do anything else in life....but this is just different.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rome wasn't built in a day man. If you're making improvements that's good, keep reading this stuff b/c practice makes perfect. It subconciously changes you (or at least it does me). I start to behave as a DJ w/o even thinking too hard about it. I guess it's just the natural Don Juan in all of us that we were just taught to suppress that wants to get out.
 
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So pimp its scary

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For me, I found this site... read and absorbed everything without applying anything for about 3-4 months. Then, I went out on new years eve and said I was going to go all out. I ended up with 7 womens phone numbers that day...

I've been getting better and better ever since...

I had made progress even though I didn't completely 'get it' now, still to this day (about 3-4 years later) I'm learning new things and developing my game. I'm not at the level of mastery, but I am at a point where, when I apply myself, I am able to pull something each night I go out.
 
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