Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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everyone will meet a girl they like one day?

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ryanvalmont

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Ok i hear this line alot from my AFC mates,why do they believe such rubbish?.

Maybe cause i'm still younge (21) but all the girls i've met i've hated deep down and just want to **** them and that's it.

Pure physical attration and nothing else,i fail to see there's a girl for everyone out there.

Is this just something AFC people say or could there be something to this?.



On a side note: "Am i ****ed up?" cause everything i do in life whether i'm nice to someone or not it's for my benifit...and when i'm being nice to people i'm really bitter and hateing them deep down.

It's like i see everyone and everything as an object that i could use to better myself.
If i went into acting i'de win hands down.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's a statistical probability that everyone will meet someone that's "for them" throughout the course of their life. In fact, all we're doing by being/becoming DJ's is increasing the number of people who will like us. Where perhaps 1 in 100 girls would like the "AFC" you, 5 out of 100 might like the "DJ" you. 10 out of 100 might like the "DJ" you with a new wardrobe, etc etc etc. The dating game is all about numbers...

As for you "hating everyone deep down inside of yourself", I don't think anyone here is qualified to give you the psychiatric advice or drugs that you require. I definitely would advise you to speak to a specialist, because it sounds like you need help.
 
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yes, pretty much everything in life is useless, idiotic, pointless... or wait, did your job in that multinacional company added something to the world? you sitting there in your cube room, using the computer?

i think, maybe im wrong, is that being wise, having wisdom, is seeing bealty despite all that.. is being happy even knowing that 99% of things are bull**** and superficial... however u can't generalize, there are people who actually think in this world...

drop the material world, if ur in it, cuz is mind-consuming, and wont give u anything, just lonelyness and isolation
 
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Self fulfilling prophecy. The girl you settle down with will be 'the one' by default.
 
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