"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If there is one thing that I wish I could drill into people’s heads, it would be to fxcking better yourself constantly.

NEVER FXCKING STOP. Always be in a state of wanting only perfection from yourself.

DEMAND NOTHING LESS.


Workout like a monster.

Read books relentlessly.

Expand your knowledge on everything, become a fxcking polymath.

Keep a journal and write in it consistently.

Eat healthy. Stop eating sh*tty food, that’s going to make you feel lethargic and depressed. Quality proteins, carbs and fats. A sh*t load of water. Vitamins and fish oils. Some goddamn fruits and vegetables.

PUT YOURSELF IN UNCOMFORTABLE SITUATIONS. Meet new people, expand your social connections, cold approach everyone, become comfortable in your own skin, so you can handle uncomfortable situations like a boss!

Become self sufficient. WORK HARD AND MAKE MONEY.

Write down ALL your bad habits and figure out a way to eradicate them from your lifestyle. And EMPHASIZE your good qualities.

Never stagnate, always push forward, no matter what life fxcking throws at you.

If you do this. I PROMISE YOU that you will have an infinitely better experience with life in general, and you will find life to be FAR more fulfilling.

Not only that, you WILL be a trillion times better with women – BUT I WARN YOU, this should not be the reason to better yourself! You should better yourself on for the pleasure of molding your self into your best self!

If you consistently push forward and strive for only the best your confidence will fxcking PUSH THROUGH THE ROOF. People will take notice. You will be the person others strive to be like!


So get the fxck up and better yourselves and NEVER EVER STOP. Once you achieve your goals, set more, and once you achieve those, keep going.

I promise you; working on yourself in all aspects of life and becoming the person you want to be by consistently bettering yourself is one of the few great pleasures in life! So enjoy it

Hope you all have a fantastic fxcking day

Peace
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I share the same message as you....

The whining, complaining, feeling entitled, and becoming satisfied with mediocrity is at an all time high.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hardly news though is it? if you'd read the Dj bible (which ought to be your first port of call on this site) then this 'info' is rather redundant.
 

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Sometimes a culling of existing, known information into a concise form, articulated through a unique personality, gives me a new appreciation for that info.
 

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well at 56 you really ought to know that by now...unique personality or no unique personality. and if you don't then there's no hope for you...
 

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Repped for truth. This is something I need to be more pro-active about. The first thing on my list would be "lack of motivation and comfort in my routine". I'm always SLIGHTLY moving forward, but if I picked up my act and really hit it hard this year, I could be in the position with a year where I'm set up for my life. I am going to re-read this when I get home and move up a gear. Cheers for the post.!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nice post.
 

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Bump for those who didn't read it.

Glad you guys liked the post, I am working on a couple more post's as we speak.

Definitely more motivating sh*t to come.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It's Impossible to stop, progessing is part of who I am.

Trouble is, some people can't deal with it. They are not meant to be in your life anyway.
 

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Make your time more productive...
-Get off the couch - no more netflix, no more watching grown men play games, nor more TV period
-Get off social media - big proponent for the downfall of society
-Quit texting unnecessarily
-Get off the internet, yes that means sosuave too
-Put your phone away, unless your setting up dates

What do with all this free time...
-Pick up a new hobby
-Exercise
-Spend "real" time with your kids (if you have any) - games, outdoor activities, take them places, experience life without your devices
-Focus on work
-READ READ READ and LEARN LEARN LEARN
-Meet new people everywhere you go
-Go out with purpose - something I still struggle with, hanging with friends that are mostly boring...

If you focus on making every hour of your day more productive, your work will improve and your life will improve. You will be busy, confident, and highly attractive...

As narcisssist said.... NEVER FXCKING STOP
 

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Work Uber.... I get to go out, and meet ladies, all while getting paid!!! Definitely good for target practice!

Can't wait till this weekend! It should be busy with the Newport Beach boat parade!!!
 

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Great post.

Constant self-improvement is a must. But even more important is having the right motivations for self-improvement. The reason you want to improve yourself matters.

Remember that society needs the majority of people to have low self-esteem. Society is structured in such a way to make the standards of “beauty” and “success” so high that they are not attainable for the vast majority of people. The media creates a standard no human can ever live up to.

This is why I push men so hard to have their own PERSONAL agenda over society's agenda. This is very important.

Most people grow up and spend their adult years taking in society's messages leading to low self-esteem for not living up to the standards of "perfection". What is the goal? MONEY.

Remember the world runs on money. Happy people with high self-esteem make horrible consumers. Happy people will not blow all their money on “status items” to impress friends. Happy people will not buy a woman whatever she wants just to get her love/affection/body.

Most people try to “buy” happiness. They don’t realize that happiness comes from having power and freedom. Power over your own life and the freedom to live it the way you want. It comes from a rich and peaceful inner life.

But society’s economic model is based on growth. In order for growth to occur, people need to keep spending money, buying new things and trying to top themselves. For companies to stay in business they need to convince people their products will improve their lives, help them get laid and make them happy. And when that doesn’t happen.. don’t worry.. they have a new and improved product that works better than the last one. And the cycle goes on….

MEN.. make sure you always have your own PERSONAL agenda. Always. Just some perspective to piggyback on the OP.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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