"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Everyone post your favorite song and the link to it on youtube!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
these two in particular, make sure you got bass
The White Flash feat. thom yorke
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PpI5QGnQcQw
Dark Side of the Sun feat. Puppetmastaz
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSL900aQzow&feature=related
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Creep by Scarling
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5qqaOU0Hfg
The Klaxons - It's Not Over Yet
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODyXPCmEAlI&feature=related
JJ72 - Formulae
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ieLTBh9FuBs
Camera Obscura - Lloyd I'm Ready To Be Heartbroken
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XTa_RQC8ZxA
Depeche Mode - Lilian
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7iFtsKj8qI&feature=related
Junior Boys - In The Morning
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BiI-3uRfaSc
Paolo Conte - Sparring Partner
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CV4FORYbRlg
Cranes - Everywhere
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XG1vfS8fGic
http://fr.youtube.com/watch?v=xDc5xWl3zFI&feature=related
I have yet to meet the person who doesn't like this song.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
http://ca.youtube.com/user/SheenaMelwani
I love this song.
http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=xbm4SzdZI9g
http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=6PKCu5E2_lM
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Heart Break Kid
Master Don Juan
Yeah that is my only issue with them too. He sang opera so he is amazing when he does not muffle:I'm Charming said:
http://fr.youtube.com/watch?v=J-TUufvK0gU
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Nice!
I recently got into this song and now I love it , it is a video of a wrestler since I like watching it and like the wrestler so I think it's nice the song I love though.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xOvHEUNAcxk&feature=related
One headlight is another fave
CHop suey
Midnight show-Killers (It reminds me of a time before I had to care about anything... I was safe in my cocoon so I have sentimental reasons to love the song)