"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Everyone post your favorite song and the link to it on youtube!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
these two in particular, make sure you got bass
The White Flash feat. thom yorke
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PpI5QGnQcQw
Dark Side of the Sun feat. Puppetmastaz
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSL900aQzow&feature=related
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Creep by Scarling
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5qqaOU0Hfg
The Klaxons - It's Not Over Yet
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODyXPCmEAlI&feature=related
JJ72 - Formulae
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ieLTBh9FuBs
Camera Obscura - Lloyd I'm Ready To Be Heartbroken
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XTa_RQC8ZxA
Depeche Mode - Lilian
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7iFtsKj8qI&feature=related
Junior Boys - In The Morning
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BiI-3uRfaSc
Paolo Conte - Sparring Partner
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CV4FORYbRlg
Cranes - Everywhere
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XG1vfS8fGic
http://fr.youtube.com/watch?v=xDc5xWl3zFI&feature=related
I have yet to meet the person who doesn't like this song.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
http://ca.youtube.com/user/SheenaMelwani
I love this song.
http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=xbm4SzdZI9g
http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=6PKCu5E2_lM
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Heart Break Kid
Master Don Juan
Yeah that is my only issue with them too. He sang opera so he is amazing when he does not muffle:I'm Charming said:
http://fr.youtube.com/watch?v=J-TUufvK0gU
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Nice!
I recently got into this song and now I love it , it is a video of a wrestler since I like watching it and like the wrestler so I think it's nice the song I love though.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xOvHEUNAcxk&feature=related
One headlight is another fave
CHop suey
Midnight show-Killers (It reminds me of a time before I had to care about anything... I was safe in my cocoon so I have sentimental reasons to love the song)