"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Everyone post your 2010 New Year's resolutions here

Trader

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This is useful because

You become more motivated yourself when you see other people being motivated. Iron sharpens iron.

For me

1) Wake up at 5 AM every day

2) No masturbation or porn

3) Work out at least once a week
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Julius_Seizeher

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2010 Resolutions:

1. Maintain strong momentum in building my practice, and to not worry about what I don't know yet.

2. To master the art of Sexual Transmutation.

3. To build a Braintrust of valued partners who advise each other on various ambitions in the professional, social, and political arenas.

4. To keep my training up and keep getting bigger and stronger.

5. To increase my involvement in the Masons and Shriners.

6. To explore other business opportunities that present themselves.

7. To finally bring my comprehensive American recovery and revitalization plan together in a book, and to found a political party based on the contents of that book.
 

Ice882

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Lose my V-Card.
 

sigma335

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1. Continue with my workout and diet plan

2. No smoking cigarettes no matter what!

3. No masturbation(I already see myself breaking this one I have no sex partners, have toned it down quite a bit over the past month and feel more natural/horny around women)

4. Get involved group sports activities

5. Increase my swagger and game

6. Get/Keep finances in order

7. Disciplined trading

8. Expand social circle

Bottomline - be a man and be in control of my life.
 

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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1. Strict diet regime

2. Start a workout regime

3. Get into university

4. Lose my virginity

5. Join the Local Church of Spirituality

6. Go out more at the weekends
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kal0051

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Here's mine in order of importance:

1. Figure out what's the cause of my depression and fix it

2. Regain my motivation in regards to my career

3. Buy the car I want (already have the down payment, waiting til spring because I don't want to have to deal with winter tires, will shop around in the summer)

4. Possible move into a nicer place, however the car comes first

5. Learn how to be able to go on more than one date with a girl (that's the furthest I've gotten with any girl)

6. Lose my virginity
 

HeyPachuco!

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2010's set targets and goals

Health/ Physique

1. Get a check up on body/ dental
2. Put on a weight and bulk up ( Gym 5 times a week )
3. Maintain a healthy diet
4. Lower ciggerette usage
5. Not being able to sit down and be lethargic, doing something "productive" towards goals consistantly

Appearance:

1. Stay up to date with clothing
2. Get more tattoos/ piercings

Career:

1. Build on it, set periodic targets and deadlines
2. Publishing/ broadcast and advertise
3. Settle in comfortably as possible and maintain duties

Learn:

1. Basic Spanish, German and my full native Portuguese
2. Stock Market
3. Psychology
4. Political Science
5. Take my Highway Crash Course (Driving on Motorway)
6. Reading more/ 100 pages a day
7. Learn to scrutinize my progress within The Game, search self-actualization.

Travelling/ Destinations:

1. Amsterdam (Heineken Festival)
2. California - So/Nor.Cal ( Get ink done over there, visit Huntington Beach, Surf communities )
3. Ayia Napa (Greece)
4. Update passport
5. Meet and befriend as many people as possible
6. Visit my dad, havent seen my old man for a whole year

Miscellaneous/ Less important:

1. 3-way F-close with some HB's
2. 3-way Makeout with some HB's
3. Get into favourite bars/ clubs for free and VIP
4. Throw a huge party
5. Camping somewhere effed up with some old stories
6. Make a FR video



Overall, not making the same mistakes as I did in 2009 is my actual target. I have a whole other sub-set targets under these numbered goals, too long to get into. Definetly not going through what I went through with any girl like this year, was pretty rough. NO LTR, STR or RELATIONSHIPS of any kind.
 

Ambition Now

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1. Quit smoking
2. Keep working out
3. Go back to martial arts
4. Daily meditation
5. Make new professional contacts
6. Approach more girls
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WhitePimp

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To get my shit together and finally start putting all the disjointed pieces of my life into one cohesive, confident, strong whole man. I think I need to put girls aside mentally for a bit and focus on getting out of my minimum wage job and into an actual career. I'm already in the process, and 2009 was a year of great personal revelation for advancing this process.
 

DonJuanit0

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1. Expand social circle
2. f*ck as many as possible, only HB 7+
3. finish uni
4. decrease smoking
5. go back to gym
6. Spend a lot of money on me
 

PlaysToWin

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Specific instructions:
1. Get up early every day even without early lectures, except maybe a lie in on Sundays.
2. Go to all social events you are invited to (no matter how few people you'll know there) if the alternative is sitting on my ass at home for the evening.
3. If I am attracted to a girl, make some sort of move on her. No wussing out and just being friendly.
4. Do something constructive every day. No more lazy days.
Guidelines:
5. Talk to people more: strangers, classmates, friends of friends, etc.
6. Improve my diet, eat less junk.
7. Start my assignments earlier.
 

jnice48146

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Ok, here's mine.

1. Totally kill off the AFC in me once and for all.
2. Continue weightlifting 3 days a week, and add cardio at least two days a week.
3. Got to places I don't usually go when I go out so I can meet more people in general, women specifically.
4. Find a Master DJ in my area for an "apprenticeship", and to learn to be a great wingman as well.
 

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1. double my income
2. lose 50lbs
3. skydive
4. go to vegas.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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synergy1

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1. grow our business.
2. continue working out and getting more athletic.

Last year was good in almost all regards except losing my job. I really have no intention of changing anything up right now.
 

Credos

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Only 3 things to do:

1) Make a bucket list
2) Succeed this year at school - I fvcking really want this diploma
3) Do an internship with "De nul" and go to china (or some other foreign far away country)

@ Warrior74: I went skydiving this summer, many 30-ers were doing it, its alot of fun and you should really do it. I didn't want to come back for a solo-jump so I went for it the first time. (meaning I didn't do the duo jump before) They say the rush is much more extreme when doing it solo. (solo means, they guide you down, just nobody on your back and you have to open the parashute, though if you black out, they will still do it, or there's even a pressure meter which makes the parashute open at a certain hight) Btw doing the solo you have to follow a boring class for 8 hours just for safety, it's all simple though.
 

lazikia

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Girl-related:
1. Have sex with at least 3 non-fat girls.
2. Figure out how to fix my perpetual awkwardness with women.
3. Cut back on porn drastically, at first a couple of times a month, then not at all.
4. Be more aggressive and dominant with women
5. Figure out how to stop attracting so many fat girls.

Non girl-related:
1. Move out of my parents' house by May at the latest, but hopefully sooner.
2. Get started on a screenplay, short story, or novel.
3. Get over my negativity and figure out a way to always be positive.
 

Crissco

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1. Keep learning a little bit about everything.

2. Pick one thing, master it, and follow through with it.

3. Have $5,000 saved in my account by December 31st 2010.

4. Have one of my inventions patented.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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