"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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EVERYBODY write your goals here

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I want everybody to just take a few seconds and write all their personal goals here, no matter how big or small, ambitious or seemingly pointless, if you plan on achieving something thats important to you, write it down here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My goals are to go into a Major league baseball team, get a good education, learn more about life, and test my limits. If baseball doesn't pan out I am going to become an archaeologist in either China or South America.
 

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Learn to speak fluent Manderin Chinese.

Lose 20 lbs and enter in a Shidokon fighting tournament by next year.

Get my bench press up to 350Lbs( my previous best)

Have sex with a; Asian girl
Purto Rican
woman over 40
also have one more virgin before i get too old

Go on a trip to a beach that has WHITE sand not the beaches that all of the people around here go to(Atlantic city, myrtel beach, ocean city) Im talking Miami, Ft Lauderdale, The Keys, bahamas, etc.

Thats about it for this year. LOL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The beaches at Fort Lauderdale are really good. I went down about a year ago. Very fun
 

dig it

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I want to master my life in all its facets.

Health, education, finance, adventure, the lot.

i want to sleep with as many women as i can before i settle down with one whom i find irrestistable later in my 20's perhaps, if ever.

i want to see the world and the buildings and places history has made famous.

i want to know whats what behind the game behind the game.

i dont want to lie on my death bed and say " i wish i had done this, or i wish i had done that."

i want no regrets when i finally die.

i want to die with the happy thoughts of a girl on my mind. i want her to weep at the loss of me, and i want to be able to lie to her and tell her she will find someone else just as good. :)
 

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1600 on the SAT

Varsity baseball/ basketball

Bench press: 260 lbs

Squat: 405 lbs

Read the New Testament

btw yall i see a lot more views than i do replies, post them, it'll only take a second. if you don't have high goals how are you going to achieve more? how are you going to be more worthy of the better girls that you want? If you don't have goals, make some, look around here and find something to strive for. If you see someone with similiar goals as you or you know something about what they're trying to accomplish, offer some advice, motivation, etc...
 

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Great thread!!

GOALS:

1) Get a place at Oxford to study Economics at for a post-graduate degree

2) Have an affair with a married woman twice my age (a la The Graduate)

3) Have a threesome with a pair of Swedish lesbians (if only dreams came true)

4) Overcome my shyness and learn to be outgoing and sociable and relaxed with women

5) Earn a million by the age of 30
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the rebuttle

First i wanna get the girl i has been on my mind for a year and a half

Then be swole
Hoop for varsity
Have a threesome with two hotchicks
Play in the NBA
BE THE ULTIMATE DON JUAN
 

Kineti[C]harm

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being able to pick whichever women i want when I want her and sleep with her that day.


Get rich


Get a fast supercar like lamborghini


Get richer
 

So pimp its scary

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This may take a while.

Socially -
- to be 'the master of my domain'
- to casually start conversations with anyone that crosses my path (where convenient and appropriate)
- to give back to the community in which I live on a consitent basis
- to make friends in ALL places

Financially
- Own a house ( partway there )
- Own a duplex
- Own an appartment building
- Make 5$ dollars, and donate 10%, and 10% of my earnings
- Create and manage my own company
- Consistently invest 10% of my earnings

Physically
- >10% body fat
- 215lbs (I'm 5'6" 165lbs, and fairly skinny)
- bench 275-300
- run 30 min a day consistantly

Sexually
- sex in a church (alter or confessional)
- threesome (or more)
- about 10-15 more partners (most all cases will have protection)
- sex with a stripper

I could go on...
 

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1) Develop confidence, charm and great conversation skills.

2) Get in great shape. Bench 220 Lbs by the end of the summer.

3) Become a Dj I always wanted to be.

4) Learn to be tolerant to stupid people.

5) Do the DJ Boot Camp with great success.

:)
 

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Goals

Continue on my goal of becoming a Firefighter
Own 3 Homes, Rent out 2 of them
A vehicle for every need, Bike, Truck, Muscle car, Boat, Van(all fast)
Be extremely confident and never be at a loss for words
Retire at a reasonably young age
Help people out as much as possible, possibly save a life or 2
Travel to foreign countries
Be known statewide for something
Be able to support my parents when they are older
Find the perfect girl

Not goals just things I would really like to do

Be in 1 tv show/movie
Be in a boxing match
"be with" girls from different ethnicities :D
Surf
Go mountain climbing
Skydive
Speak another language, Italian
and oh yeah, win the lottery
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Short term
To f*** four fat girls this year.
To get my eating habits correct.
To break a static press of 190 (kgs).
To be able to run 3 miles in 18 minutes.

Medium Term
To pass Special Forces selection next year.

Long Term
To be a millionare by 35.
To become a Member of Parilament by 50.
To find a woman to fall in love with.


Let's hear some more.
 

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Get rich, retire early.
 

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My Goals.

[Personal]

1) Learn to be more tolerant of idiots/racists.
2) Learn to pick my battles
3) Go to Grad School
4) Be as pro-active as possible
5) Stay BUSY!
6) Start my own media company with a bunch of like-minded geniouses. :D



[General]

1) Move to Europe
2) Fvck a bunch of lily-white European chicks. LOL. Throw in a bunch of hot Afro-European Mullatto and Euro-Turkish chicks for good measure. :D (I say all this in jest....)
3) Learn German
4) Improve my Italian
5) Own a cottage in the Swedish countryside for summer holidays, an apartment in NYC and LA.
6) Author a book.








That was a short, and by no means comprehensive list. This is actually a good idea - I need to do this on my own, on paper later this week. :)
 

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- Get enough money to not have to think about money ever again.
- Sleep with 15 women then marry one of them
- Own a really nice home and have 3 kids.
- Be known as a genious in my field of work
- Maintain my fitness and general health.
 

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My ultimate goal is to find a way to make money that is fun and gives me as much freedom as possible. If it means starting a company or going into a consulting type business, I just wan to to find a way to make money without me having to work like crazy. I'm eyeing financial freedom. Of course I have a plan in place, and am sticking to it as much as I can.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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