"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
everybody that been the friend may want to read this
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Haha owned
Ouch. This is depressing as hell, but true. As an introverted nerd, especially in high school, I know that feel. I disagree with the girl on one thing though.
"I'd go so far as to say that your rejection - or lack - of your male instincts will stem population growth, as more and more shy guys try to become intelligent by studying a wide range of information that is largely supplied and accepted by previous social inadequates, instead of following their primal instincts of becoming grown men, impregnating women and thus contributing to the continuation of the human race."
All of this info passed down by "social inadequates" (aka. beta male intellectuals) has driven the advancement of society, with regards to science, technology, education, politics, medicine, etc. This is more useful to society than a bunch of alpha males knocking up chicks, if you'd ask me.
In fact, in the book Freakanomics, the author makes a pretty convincing case that the legalization of abortion in the early 1970s prevented a whole generation of babies born by "alpha males" from being created. If these babies had been born, they would be predominantly raised by single mothers (after their alpha fathers left) and in poverty, being predisposed to crime, unprotected sex, drug use, etc.
And the fact that the girl says she'd prefer an "impulsive", "savage", and "uncivilised" man just proves the self-destructive nature of female instinctual attraction to alpha males.
I hate to say it, but nice guys finish last. I wish it weren't so.
"I'd go so far as to say that your rejection - or lack - of your male instincts will stem population growth, as more and more shy guys try to become intelligent by studying a wide range of information that is largely supplied and accepted by previous social inadequates, instead of following their primal instincts of becoming grown men, impregnating women and thus contributing to the continuation of the human race."
All of this info passed down by "social inadequates" (aka. beta male intellectuals) has driven the advancement of society, with regards to science, technology, education, politics, medicine, etc. This is more useful to society than a bunch of alpha males knocking up chicks, if you'd ask me.
In fact, in the book Freakanomics, the author makes a pretty convincing case that the legalization of abortion in the early 1970s prevented a whole generation of babies born by "alpha males" from being created. If these babies had been born, they would be predominantly raised by single mothers (after their alpha fathers left) and in poverty, being predisposed to crime, unprotected sex, drug use, etc.
And the fact that the girl says she'd prefer an "impulsive", "savage", and "uncivilised" man just proves the self-destructive nature of female instinctual attraction to alpha males.
I hate to say it, but nice guys finish last. I wish it weren't so.
Ouch. This is depressing as hell, but true. As an introverted nerd, especially in high school, I know that feel. I disagree with the girl on one thing though.
"I'd go so far as to say that your rejection - or lack - of your male instincts will stem population growth, as more and more shy guys try to become intelligent by studying a wide range of information that is largely supplied and accepted by previous social inadequates, instead of following their primal instincts of becoming grown men, impregnating women and thus contributing to the continuation of the human race."
All of this info passed down by "social inadequates" (aka. beta male intellectuals) has driven the advancement of society, with regards to science, technology, education, politics, medicine, etc. This is more useful to society than a bunch of alpha males knocking up chicks, if you'd ask me.
In fact, in the book Freakanomics, the author makes a pretty convincing case that the legalization of abortion in the early 1970s prevented a whole generation of babies born by "alpha males" from being created. If these babies had been born, they would be predominantly raised by single mothers (after their alpha fathers left) and in poverty, being predisposed to crime, unprotected sex, drug use, etc.
And the fact that the girl says she'd prefer an "impulsive", "savage", and "uncivilised" man just proves the self-destructive nature of female instinctual attraction to alpha males.
I hate to say it, but nice guys finish last. I wish it weren't so.
"I'd go so far as to say that your rejection - or lack - of your male instincts will stem population growth, as more and more shy guys try to become intelligent by studying a wide range of information that is largely supplied and accepted by previous social inadequates, instead of following their primal instincts of becoming grown men, impregnating women and thus contributing to the continuation of the human race."
All of this info passed down by "social inadequates" (aka. beta male intellectuals) has driven the advancement of society, with regards to science, technology, education, politics, medicine, etc. This is more useful to society than a bunch of alpha males knocking up chicks, if you'd ask me.
In fact, in the book Freakanomics, the author makes a pretty convincing case that the legalization of abortion in the early 1970s prevented a whole generation of babies born by "alpha males" from being created. If these babies had been born, they would be predominantly raised by single mothers (after their alpha fathers left) and in poverty, being predisposed to crime, unprotected sex, drug use, etc.
And the fact that the girl says she'd prefer an "impulsive", "savage", and "uncivilised" man just proves the self-destructive nature of female instinctual attraction to alpha males.
I hate to say it, but nice guys finish last. I wish it weren't so.