EVERYBODY! Collaberate to Help Me Out!

[Bunk 040]

Don't put this in HS Forum because I won't get help.

Alright, as some people on here might know I'm a ****y bastard but I always joke around and I'm a very cool person to get along with especially after you get to know me. I also know for a fact that in the looks department I'm no less than a 9 and I dress nice always, so I don't have a problem attracting any chick and I'm not scared to talk to any of em'. Plus Ima play basketball this year, and football n basketball next year.

So here's the problem, well I wouldn't call it a problem cause most girls like it. But I just moved out to Las Vegas from my home town and I dont really know anybody at my new school. I'm in the 11th grade and I have alot of classes with juniors n seniors. Friday was my first day and I only got two numbers, well it could have been 3 but it was my last period and I think I got more than enough time to get hers.

I don't really care about becoming popular because knowing myself that will come, but I just don't know anybody for real only about 15 people in the whole school. It seems like everybody here got they own cliques, and I remember how we used to act when people tried to join our cliques and I'm dont wanna be that annoying cat that tries to cling along. It was so bad that I went to the library during lunch time cause I couldn't find nobody that I knew. I can't hang after school until I get my own car cuz the bus driver is a *****. I know that I won't become a loner and I'll find some friends but I wanna run this school.

So any suggestions would help!

 

[Sterling the Runner]

What exactly do u want us to suggest? If u dont have problems making friends and becoming popular, What is it that u want?

 

[Bunk 040]

That's the problem, I don't know what I want! I don't wanna be real popular cause I used to hate when people I didn't know knew my name, but on the other hand I do want a healthy friend base and knowing alot of people.

I have like only 3 close friends at the school, but I didn't see not any of em on Friday, hell I never been this confused about something man.

 

[Omega]

You've got to be kidding me. If your acting like this now I'd hate to see you in University and beyond.

Stop caring about what people think of you and do whatever the hell you want. Your into basketball so play it and live it, don't live your social life to the ends of the earth. You may keep in contact with a couple people from your new school after your finished, but that's going to be all.

I'm not trying to sway you from one side to another, but you have to realize you just entered the school and most of these kids have known each other from childhood and even lower. In fact, alot of their parents are most likely friends as well. Your not going to break the barriers, and even if you entered in your Freshman year it would still most likely be very difficult to do.

Concentrate on Sports and Academics.

 

[comic_relief]

agreed with R3n...

I think that if you are going to play sports that you will get more friends.

I say just concentrate on your passions (football and basketball from what I can tell) and acedemics because lets just face it that in ten years that you will have a new pool of friends (maybe some left over). but knowledge is the only thing that they cannot take away from you (counte of monte cristo).

 

[Bunk 040]

Re: agreed with R3n...

Originally posted by baseballDJ
(counte of monte cristo).

Oh yeah, that's the movie! But yeah I see what yall are saying, even the tough-love from R3n. I think I'm just used to knowing everybody that on my first day I didn't know what to do.

I'm just gonna start being cool with everybody but still gonna have my 'take-no-****' attitude.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Sorry, this goes in High School. And frankly, you sound like one of those people who would b*tch about a wet dream.

 

[Bunk 040]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Sorry, this goes in High School. And frankly, you sound like one of those people who would b*tch about a wet dream.

And you sound like a b*tch, so I guess you're a little bit below me!

 

[jiza101]

ENOUGH *****ING

 

[Barbillus]

Bunco.. you should have put this post in the HS forum.

You're young so dont worry too much about making friends/girls. You have quite a ways to go and I am sure you will do just fine. Just dont be needy/desperate and be sure to read the DJ Bible. I wish I had found this source of info at your age.

My advice if you want to break into a social circle/clique is to become friends with one of the guys in the group and from there you will meet everyone else. WOrk your way in slowly, dont expect to be "in" within a few weeks or months time. Eventually you'll be one of the boys.

 

[Best friends? NAY]

Bunk 040

I don't know what I want!

Well, go LIVE and figure it out, don't ask us.

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

I know how you feel to some extent. I just started college and a few people from my highschool go to the college but nto a bunch. Which means there's a lot of new people for me to get out there and meet! My best advice for you would just to simply say "Hi, or Hello."

It's really that easy. Plus if people see your going that extra mile for them (introducing yourself) they will respect you exc.

Thats the best way I can describe what Im trying to say but then agian what am I trying to say?