"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Every woman has a stupid issue

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I have just come to the realization that every woman has a stupid issue or thought process that you have to get past before you can have a relationship with her.

For example, I met one girl that was totally hung up on starting her own cosmetic store. She thought that she wouldn't be able to have a boyfriend because of it. Things didn't work out with her until I convinced her with some simple logic that she was wrong.

Another example was the time I dated a girl who thought that guys just didn't care about how she felt. As a result she thought that she had to be the same way. I would cath her trying to hold her feelings in like a guy can. All I did with her was simply suggest that we take a week off from each other. This would make her break down, almost cry, and finally act like a woman. Needless to say I didn't put up with this girl for long and I nexted her.


All girls seem to have a bunch of issues that you MUST get past before you can enter their little realm. Most of the time the best strategy is just to ignore them and be casually persistant. The issues these girls have are a defense mechanism . It is their little test to see if you are 'the one'. Every girl wants to be proven wrong. They want you to show them how wrong they are. Do this for her and you will make her feel rescued. Ignore it or jump over it and you will be in their pants any time you want.

So next time you date think to yourself. "hmm.. what is this girls' stupid little issue?" When it comes up just ignore it and don't overreact or give it much thought. She knows that if you are the man it won't bother you and you will be persistant anyway.

Now when I date it I find it easy to spot this crap. I almost laugh at it now, because I know that in the end I will be slaping her ass.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Let me just say though that sometimes you will write off a girl as having merely a 'stupid little' issue, when in fact they have huge hangups and big problems.

I'd say you don't know what's what until you are with her for a while, certainly more than a month. It takes that long to decide finally if she just has a stupid little issue or she needs to be dropped, like that chick you ended up dumping b/c she insisted guys don't care how she feels.
 
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very true..
so how do you figure out their "stupid issues"

do you just build rapport and talk to them... ?? kinda hard to get it out of them sometimes.. (ie hard to make them COMPLETELY open up? )
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
I have just come to the realization that every woman has a stupid issue or thought process that you have to get past before you can have a relationship with her.

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so you're saying only 'girls' have issues??

all humans have issues...no?
 
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no what I am saying is that girls will make up issues or blow up existing ones just to test you. There is always something a girl will find that they will not like about you. It is therefore a good idea just to ignore them and relax. Learn to expect this kind of **** from every girl. When you get past their wall they will love you for it.

Guys don't do that.

I also don't subscribe to any line of thought that suggests that men and women are the same. We are very very different and it should stay that way.
 
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