Every time I get rejected..

[aschillascanbe]

I can't help but to feel like it is because I am just not good-looking enough for her.. anyone of you here is really good looking and you would think that looks is not a cause of concern every time you get rejected?

 

[pdx1138]

Have you ever dated a woman you consider smoking hot?

IF so, you need to remind yourself what you are capable of.

Not all women will be attracted to, it's just the way it is.

 

[backcracker]

just why do u think so

 

[dosquito]

Unless you're actually ugly, it's a lot more about grooming and dress. Try to look decent, it shows that you at least have a reason to keep up appearances. But yeah, I think people on this site underestimate how vain lots of girls are. Not every girl is looking for a lover. Some are looking for power, and just want the guy that has the most "value" in society. A large part of that artificialness is beauty.

 

[Jair213]

Bro I'm not even that great looking(look at my profile pic lol) and I still pull regardless.

Dress and groom well. Go to the gym. Better your self. Get hobbys. Did wonders for me.

 

[BeDJ]

Get used to it, you will get rejected no matter how good looking you are. From my experience with cold approaches, MOST women will not open up to you. You can't blame them, their cat died, car accident, diabetes, whatever the fυ[FONT=&quot]cking case may be. Know you are entering the approach with over 50% failure and accept it. Rejection builds stronger character.

Quick tip, don't open with game, approach with the 'curious' mindset. Examples given:

I was thinking of trying that drink, is it any good?
I was thinking about getting that laptop, is it good?
I was thinking about getting that purse, is it durable?
etc. etc. etc.

If your opener sounds anything like game, you'll fail most of the time.
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[floydb25]

Everyone deals with rejection... Being good looking doesn't change this... It's just different.

I've never been rejected directly, had girls approach, given compliments, etc. However, I couldn't KEEP any of them interested, and was quite often rejected shortly after THEY initiated everything. Despite being head over heels initially... I killed the attraction that fast, and was called very complimentive things by very good looking women. Didn't mean ****. Most just want sex with "hot" guys, because they're shallow - regardless of if you meet their physical standards or not. They will also use and play you, all the same. Plus the "hot" girls have high standards beyond just looks, and will lose interest very quickly if you don't meet them. They're not just stuck up and mean to regular guys.

Relying on looks doesn't help, either. Thinking you're so attractive, and never have to do anything, or flirt with anyone, or reciprocate their interest whatsoever, or can act like a spoiled, conceited ****face who treats people poorly, and have no game or sexuality.

Everyone has different struggles and challenges, and gets rejected - no matter what side of the spectrum you're on, or in whichever manner they get rejected. They also have to put in effort, and improve themselves.

As well, the woman in question won't change who SHE is - simply because she finds you attractive. A slut will still be a slut.... *****es, users, players, manipulators... Everyone deals with them. Getting "laid" doesn't stop them from using you, or treating you like ****, or cheating on you, or dealing with their bull****. It can be even worse when these predatory women find you attractive, and everyone who gets involved with their crazy asses ends up heart-broken.

So, yea... It's all **** regardless. :crackup: