"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Every sentence a paragraph?

Atom Smasher

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I write using this style for various reasons.

One, its easier for me to read from my phone, which I mostly browse the forum from. However, I have recently seen it from desktop and I sympathize a bit. But it's still not too serious.

Two, you can talk about grammatically correct all you want, but I know for a fact this is easier to read rather than a properly indented, grammatically correct, wall of text.

Three, writing this way does not hinder comprehension, if anything, It makes it easier to understand. That's why the outlining of a writing piece if often done In bullet point format. Which easily highlights main points of a composition.

Four, I see forums as conversational, not as written articles. When you're talking to someone, do you speak in paragraphs? No? You speak in individual sentences or group of sentences which expresses a point. Similar to what I, and many others are trying to recreate with said writing style.

Five, I find that people will just bítch about anything. You mention something about school? Dude, of course no one is writing papers like this. There is a difference between a paper or an article and a forum. Which is also known as a message board. And if this style is seriously impeding your comprehension, I don't think how it's written is the problem.

Maybe text messages should follow standard writing conventions as well?

Damn those millennials, they ruin everything.

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I write using said style for various reasons. First, it's easier for me to read from my phone, which I mostly browse the forum from. However, I have recently seen it from desktop and I sympathize a bit. But it's still not too serious.Two, you can talk about grammatically correct all you want, but I know for a fact that that is easier to read rather than a properly indented, grammatically correct, wall of text. Three, the writing style does not hinder comprehension, if anything It makes it easier to understand. That's why when outlining a writing piece, it is often done in ["B]bullet points format"[/B], which easily highlights main points from a composition. Forums are conversational, not written articles. When you're talking to someone, do you speak in paragraphs No? You speak in individual sentences or group of sentences which expresses a point. Similar to what I, and many others are trying to recreate with said writing style. I find that people will just bítch about anything. You mention something about school? Dude, of course no one is writing papers that way. There is a difference between paper or an article and a forum, which is also known as a message board. And if that style is seriously impeding your comprehension, I don't think how it's written is the problem. Maybe text messages should follow standard writing conventions as well? Damn those millennials, they ruin everything.

*Just In case the first one was to tough to read.
 

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Do Old People Still Type In All Capital Letters, Or Did Everyone Who Does That Die Of Old Age?

(i Typed That In All Caps But I Did Not Realize That Sosuave Changes It When You Do That)
 

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SmooveMooves said:
When you're talking to someone, do you speak in paragraphs? No? You speak in individual sentences or group of sentences which expresses a point.
As you inadvertently pointed out, we do indeed speak in paragraphs (or an analog thereof).

The very point is that groups of sentences serve to communicate nuance of meaning. Individual, equally-weighted sentences are robotic as one sentence cannot support another. It is quite an inferior form of communication for that reason.

Most sentences do not stand alone (again as you pointed out). I would say that an important aspect of successful manhood is learning to handle language and communicate as efficiently as possible. Learning to speak and to handle the written word has gotten me very far in life. It is valuable.
 
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