JohnElDonJuan
Don Juan
A couple years ago I remember I was talking to my father I was telling him about my pretty boy cousin who is never at a shortage of women. And what my father told me is something that I'll never forget, mainly because I barely ever talk to the man. He told me every man has his gimmick. To me what he meant by that was every man has his own unique asset, trait, ability skill, mindset or attitude that could potentially attract women and I believe they can be learned and used to our advantage. At the time though I didn't really think too hard about it but a couple months later I was hanging out with my pretty boy cousin and I remembered what my pop had said. So I took note of my cousin's gimmicks and I started to take note of everyman's gimmick and why their gimmick worked so well but more important I took note of what my gimmicks are and how I can play more into them. So allow me to share with you all the gimmicks that I have recognized in all my highly successful women bagging friends.
Note: This list isn't in any particular order of importance.
Gimmick 1: Always keep your cool.
I noticed most guys that are highly successful at getting girls are calm and confident most of the time. My cousin is especially good at this one.
Gimmick 2: Always look YOUR best.
The guys that I know that are bagging girls are always looking their best. They wear clothes that are up to date with the times and they always seem to maintain good hygiene. Also I can imagine it would be pretty hard to consistently bag women if you’re constantly looking like a bum.
Gimmick 3: UNCHANGEABLE Physical Appearance
Some just look better than others, some are taller than others, some built better than others and some are more endowed (under the belt) than others. This is sad but true. It doesn't hurt to be cute or handsome but it isn't an end all, be all type of thing because we all know the guy that is a complete nerd that could be a pretty boy with a little work. We all know the guy that’s at a heights disadvantage but they still can charm the panties off of the prettiest of women. We know the skinny bastard that can steal many a girls’ heart and we know the fat slob that can do the same. But sorry to say on the flip side of the coin we know the tall guy who is a blundering loser when it comes to women. We might have heard girls talk about the endowed guy that has zero stroke game. There's also extremely built and cut guys that can't get women either. The main thing to remember about this is some parts of our physical appearances can't easily be changed but there is stuff that we can do to still attract women.
Gimmick 4: Always smell your best.
I remember I tried on some good smelling cheap oil stuff. I literally had girls I didn't even know flocking to me complimenting me on how good I smell. This leads to good opportunities to open conversations with women you don't even know because the ice is already broken.
Gimmick 5: If you’re funny to them most of the battle is already won.
I'm not that funny or witty of a person but everyone has witnessed an ordinary schmoe that nobody knows who becomes extraordinary when he opens his mouth to say something witty that makes everyone laugh and he does it constantly. Bottom line having a killer sense of humor combined with a quick wit and being able keep people entertained will help a whole lot or at least it'll keep people interested. So watch some comedy and hang around funny people more often and hopefully their humor and wit will rub off on you.
Gimmick 6: Keep your name or reputation positive.
The last thing you would want is to lose an interested girl because she is scared of what people might think of her if she was to be seen with you. So don't volunteer information that can harm you in the long run and don't repeatedly do stupid stuff that could possibly harm your reputation. Also try not to be too weird, but sometimes being weird can help because being weird means being different and being unique can be a good thing.
Gimmick 7: Find something and be excellent at it.
When I say find something and be excellent at it I don't mean being just at good it I mean to take something and make an art out of it. This works wonders with girls I remember times when I am hot in gambling or football it's like I can't be stopped usually when there is women around they tend to admire you for being able to something others can't do. So try to pick up an interesting hobby and be your best at it.
Gimmick 8: Always stand up for yourself.
There's nothing more honorable than a man that stands up for himself. Also if you don't respect yourself, who else will? Women especially will disrespect you if they know they can get away with it.
Gimmick 9: Keep a positive energy about yourself.
Some of the guys that I know who seem to be average in many ways can successfully win the interest of many girls because of their energy. It's hard to explain but they just seem have a positive, outgoing fun aura about them.
Gimmick 10: Stay on top of things and keep it real
Some of the guys I know who are the alpha males tend to be down to earth, they always seem to be on top of things and they always think for themselves
Gimmick 11: Be a mystery.
I think I have gained a girls interest by just being a mystery to her. I think in her mind I was bringing something new to her life. Bottom line try to make yourself out to be an always interesting new adventure that the girl can take.
Gimmick 12: The sexy voice.
My cousin has this one down to a tee. Try to learn how to talk with calm, slow, smooth, mellow low pitched deep voice.
Gimmick 13: Be confident in yourself.
Believe in yourself and believe in your own self worth regardless of what others might think of you. Confidence is like respect because if you don't honestly believe in yourself who else is going to be there to do it for you? Through my experience most people want to break you down any way they can, so you need to be confident in yourself for yourself. Another thing people also hate it when you’re doing well, so don't rely on others for your source of self worth and confidence.
Note: This list isn't in any particular order of importance.
Gimmick 1: Always keep your cool.
I noticed most guys that are highly successful at getting girls are calm and confident most of the time. My cousin is especially good at this one.
Gimmick 2: Always look YOUR best.
The guys that I know that are bagging girls are always looking their best. They wear clothes that are up to date with the times and they always seem to maintain good hygiene. Also I can imagine it would be pretty hard to consistently bag women if you’re constantly looking like a bum.
Gimmick 3: UNCHANGEABLE Physical Appearance
Some just look better than others, some are taller than others, some built better than others and some are more endowed (under the belt) than others. This is sad but true. It doesn't hurt to be cute or handsome but it isn't an end all, be all type of thing because we all know the guy that is a complete nerd that could be a pretty boy with a little work. We all know the guy that’s at a heights disadvantage but they still can charm the panties off of the prettiest of women. We know the skinny bastard that can steal many a girls’ heart and we know the fat slob that can do the same. But sorry to say on the flip side of the coin we know the tall guy who is a blundering loser when it comes to women. We might have heard girls talk about the endowed guy that has zero stroke game. There's also extremely built and cut guys that can't get women either. The main thing to remember about this is some parts of our physical appearances can't easily be changed but there is stuff that we can do to still attract women.
Gimmick 4: Always smell your best.
I remember I tried on some good smelling cheap oil stuff. I literally had girls I didn't even know flocking to me complimenting me on how good I smell. This leads to good opportunities to open conversations with women you don't even know because the ice is already broken.
Gimmick 5: If you’re funny to them most of the battle is already won.
I'm not that funny or witty of a person but everyone has witnessed an ordinary schmoe that nobody knows who becomes extraordinary when he opens his mouth to say something witty that makes everyone laugh and he does it constantly. Bottom line having a killer sense of humor combined with a quick wit and being able keep people entertained will help a whole lot or at least it'll keep people interested. So watch some comedy and hang around funny people more often and hopefully their humor and wit will rub off on you.
Gimmick 6: Keep your name or reputation positive.
The last thing you would want is to lose an interested girl because she is scared of what people might think of her if she was to be seen with you. So don't volunteer information that can harm you in the long run and don't repeatedly do stupid stuff that could possibly harm your reputation. Also try not to be too weird, but sometimes being weird can help because being weird means being different and being unique can be a good thing.
Gimmick 7: Find something and be excellent at it.
When I say find something and be excellent at it I don't mean being just at good it I mean to take something and make an art out of it. This works wonders with girls I remember times when I am hot in gambling or football it's like I can't be stopped usually when there is women around they tend to admire you for being able to something others can't do. So try to pick up an interesting hobby and be your best at it.
Gimmick 8: Always stand up for yourself.
There's nothing more honorable than a man that stands up for himself. Also if you don't respect yourself, who else will? Women especially will disrespect you if they know they can get away with it.
Gimmick 9: Keep a positive energy about yourself.
Some of the guys that I know who seem to be average in many ways can successfully win the interest of many girls because of their energy. It's hard to explain but they just seem have a positive, outgoing fun aura about them.
Gimmick 10: Stay on top of things and keep it real
Some of the guys I know who are the alpha males tend to be down to earth, they always seem to be on top of things and they always think for themselves
Gimmick 11: Be a mystery.
I think I have gained a girls interest by just being a mystery to her. I think in her mind I was bringing something new to her life. Bottom line try to make yourself out to be an always interesting new adventure that the girl can take.
Gimmick 12: The sexy voice.
My cousin has this one down to a tee. Try to learn how to talk with calm, slow, smooth, mellow low pitched deep voice.
Gimmick 13: Be confident in yourself.
Believe in yourself and believe in your own self worth regardless of what others might think of you. Confidence is like respect because if you don't honestly believe in yourself who else is going to be there to do it for you? Through my experience most people want to break you down any way they can, so you need to be confident in yourself for yourself. Another thing people also hate it when you’re doing well, so don't rely on others for your source of self worth and confidence.
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