"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Every Guy has MARKET share

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IS it true that every guy has his market?
Does every guy have a particular group of women that would die to hook up with him?

I've noticed that either short petite women or fatties work for my attention. All other women treat me as indifferent.

Are short and fat women my market?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol

This sounds like a wallstreet deal.

People who like asian women are dealing with the foreign market hahahahaha

WTF?

This is funny.
 
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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
IS it true that every guy has his market?
Does every guy have a particular group of women that would die to hook up with him?

I've noticed that either short petite women or fatties work for my attention. All other women treat me as indifferent.

Are short and fat women my market?
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I'd first ask how you treat the shorties and the fatties. Are you attracted to them? Because if you aren't, then you're treating them differently than the way you treat the women you ARE attracted to, and that could be the problem.

Maybe you're not into these types of girls, so you're naturally relaxed and funny and cool with them, and that pushes their buttons. But with the girls you ARE attracted to, you're uptight and nervous, so that turns them off.

That seems more probable than you having the shorty/fatty pheromone.

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Most of the women I attract, almost to a tee, going back several years, (understand i'm eliminating fat chicks out of the equation) curvy, with nice hips and ass. This crosses ethnic and racial lines. It's like they know I'm attracted to that, and they pick up on it. I don't really attract real skinny girls.
 
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I love the shorties, date the shorties, and enjoy shorties, but ignore the fatties.

THE ONLy time im nervous is before an approach or when a girl is such bore and doesnt add anything to the conversation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whilst this may well be true, what we are striving for is more market share, in quality products.

Sometimes the cream of the crap looks good when your choices are limited.
 
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