"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Every girl in the club is with some one?

lets_do_this

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Do you still approach/talk to someone who is already with someone when "in the club"?

Not necessarily a couple. Something like 2 guys and 4 girls in a group, or 4 girls and 2 guys etc..

Wont this start a fight? Just dont want trouble or embarassment. :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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diablo

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Personally I won't approach a girl if she and another girl are with 2 other guys... unless the guys don't look menacing at all. If it's 3 girls I don't mind sitting down uninvited and starting to talk to them all at once... but guys, count me out.
 

MightyMate

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I approach girls with somebody.
Once i spoke to a girl who was with bf. Later her bf took her from me. I shown her to go to the place where people dance so he wont see us. He saw. Few minutes later i told my friend to go to her, and say i want a number. She gave it. Few days later we had mad sex. ****in slut.
 

Xtravaganza

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Once i spoke to a girl who was with bf. Later her bf took her from me. I shown her to go to the place where people dance so he wont see us. He saw. Few minutes later i told my friend to go to her, and say i want a number. She gave it. Few days later we had mad sex. ****in slut.
I've seen that before. Insecure AFC BF. Is it that difficult to be the alpha male when the girl in contest is gonna sleep with you tonight...?

I woulda told you: "Hey, you sound like a funny guy, I'll give you my phone number so maybe we can hang around sometime"
COKKBLOCKED! lol...
 
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