"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ever went out on the field wit a SS member?

Solomon

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If so how was the experience?
did you learn anything?


I'm just curious cause I know a lot of you have

peace
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Snow Plowman

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I've met 3-5 different guys from on here...Two Handles that I know are...

"Guywhoneedshelp" and "Youngsir4sho"

The thing is everytime I go out, I'm always off in my own world. When I met "Guywhoneedshelp" he wanted to check out venues at the city since were all under 21, it was him and like 5-6 friends. I showed one of his friend's what is possible. I winged with "Guy" and his friend once, then they were in a mixed set for an hour as I hung out with there female friend. Overall it was fun...the second time we met I brought him and his friend into the venue and then we just disappeared as I was going crazy and they were isolated with some rich chicks.

"Youngsir4sho" I didn't get to sarge with him and his boys cause I couldn't get into the night venue, so we just joked around, walking around trying to find a place, until I finally just went home since I was the burden, causing them to not be able to go into anywhere...never got to meet up again.

Met another guy don't remember his handle, we hung out a few times, brought him to the night venue once but again I get caught up in my own world, running around. I thought they left, they were hanging with some chicks from london.

Overall the guys I met on here were cooler than I thought...But this is just guys from NY, I have no clue about anywhere else, because alot of guys sound like complete chodes on this forum, which is why I actually wanted to meet some guys from on here.
 

Duffdog

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I think it would be really fun and rewarding, but no, I haven't met anyone from SS.
 
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