"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ever seen "Rebel Without A Cause"?

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Anyone seen the movie "Rebel without a Cause", Starring James Dean?

in the movie, James Dean is a kid who has TONS of balls--get's into fist fights, knife fights, etc. even plays a game of Chicken race.

however, he's also kind hearted to his lady interest, and not at all a **** to people.

Generally, he's a "nice-guy" with the bad boy streak that women love.

He's the type of man we should all aspire to be...soft around his lady, yet ready to KILL the guy who looks at her funny.

avoids confrontation at all costs...but goddamn, get him pissed and he has a switchblade at the ready

I dont' think Nice-guys are rejected for being wusses...I think they're rejected for being BORING.

women want a guy who'll keep them guessing. Am I right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bigdada said:
I dont' think Nice-guys are rejected for being wusses...I think they're rejected for being BORING.

women want a guy who'll keep them guessing. Am I right?
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Good movie that.

Yes, they want a guy who is exciting (not boring), and who keeps them guessing, but they also don't want wussies.

When I watched Rebel, I was expecting James Dean to be a real bad boy, but he was actually more of a nice guy who stood up for himself.
 
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Sounds a little bit like me except soft around a lady, if she gives me **** that is
 
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