Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ever seen "Rebel Without A Cause"?

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Anyone seen the movie "Rebel without a Cause", Starring James Dean?

in the movie, James Dean is a kid who has TONS of balls--get's into fist fights, knife fights, etc. even plays a game of Chicken race.

however, he's also kind hearted to his lady interest, and not at all a **** to people.

Generally, he's a "nice-guy" with the bad boy streak that women love.

He's the type of man we should all aspire to be...soft around his lady, yet ready to KILL the guy who looks at her funny.

avoids confrontation at all costs...but goddamn, get him pissed and he has a switchblade at the ready

I dont' think Nice-guys are rejected for being wusses...I think they're rejected for being BORING.

women want a guy who'll keep them guessing. Am I right?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bigdada said:
I dont' think Nice-guys are rejected for being wusses...I think they're rejected for being BORING.

women want a guy who'll keep them guessing. Am I right?
Good movie that.

Yes, they want a guy who is exciting (not boring), and who keeps them guessing, but they also don't want wussies.

When I watched Rebel, I was expecting James Dean to be a real bad boy, but he was actually more of a nice guy who stood up for himself.
 

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Sounds a little bit like me except soft around a lady, if she gives me **** that is
 
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