"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ever seen Hitch?

NeedToImprove

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Well, Hitch (Will Smith) is a good movie for the aspiring Don Juan. Hitch is not a player nor does he wanna be one, he's just a guy that has been burned like most of us by a girl he loved, but instead of becoming bitter he learned with his mistakes and became what we call A Don Juan. Fantastic movie, better than Alfie imho.


Loved the scene in the bar where he treats this HOT girl that is surrounded by guys like a waitress ( even though he knew she wasn't ) and she gets pissed at him and he tells her that was the only way to grab her attention. fabulous:D

5 stars
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Blackdragon5095

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I saw the bootleg but it's not be a bad movie. Hitch has confidence. I think Hitch is a good role model. But I been reiveiwing this quote and it gose with being a dj and true about a guy like HITCH.


"It's lack of faith that makes people afraid of meeting challenges,
and I believed in myself."-Muhammad Ali

This is true, even I need more faith, people who are insurce need faith. We need to believe in ourselfs, tell ourselfs we can do this. I was talking to this 1 guy and he said that this 1 hot chick is way out of his level. ( Meaning she is too cool for him ) How can you think like that. Look at us, EVERYONE HERE BREATHS AIR, NEEDS WATER TO LIVE, HAVE EMOTIONS LIKE I DO. How can she be better then he is. If it was the opposite way around he would be saying he too cool for her and she would be chasing him all over the place.

Hitch has faith, he believes in himself. The guys he was helping didn't have faith, Hitch came along and help these guys see the light. After they got the girl they were on their own. Allowing them to man up.
 

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I liked the movie hitch, and yes you can learn to aquire some of his qualities, but honestly, pick some real life person to use as a role model. But he was a player. But a player with purpose and reason.
 

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Can anyone here talk like "HITCH". Every line that comes out of his mouth is PERFECT. Is this what you need/act like to be a DJ???
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The moral of the movie sucked. First half was good..Disregard the 2nd half completely. It's as AFC as it gets. Infact it promotes AFC-ness.
 
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