Ever scratch your head when certain chicks reject you?

[Jaylan]

Ok I needed to complain about this. And I know Im not the only dude annoyed by this.

I was out yesterday and struck up convo with this cute girl. Shes ok, nothing amazing, but she had a really cool personality which piqued my interest. So I asked for her number so we could chat more, and she goes "I just kinda have this rule where I dont give out my number, but Ill take yours". Lmao....thats the first (maybe second though) time some girl gave me that lame ass line. I would have preferred the "I have a bf" line over that crap I was fed.

Anyways, I just told her ok...kept the convo going, and left without exchanging any contact info. Because we all know she would never hit me up anyways. I basically swayed convo away from the number thing for a quick second and then bounced. I had no reason to keep talking, nor any reason to give her my number.

But the thing that annoyed me the most is that Ive dated and sexed up girls hotter than her. And tbh, objectively Im sure most people would say Im out of her league, or at the least that we are in the same league. So if this girl was single and just wasnt into me, it does boggle my mind how plain jane chicks can be picky at times. Im not saying Im a super good looking hunky guy, Im just saying my experience has shown me that Im a dude whos got a good look and can pull rather attractive women.

I know Im not alone here. What other men here have been baffled by a rejection and left thinking "wow...did SHE just really turn me down?" Like I was legit baffled by it for a while.

 

[GS750]

Yeah, its a blow to the ego. It happened to me recently too. Maybe she turned you down because she knows you're too good looking for her and therefore she could never trust you. Some girls date down on the looks scale, not up. Just another way to look at it...

For whatever reason; boyfriend, looks, etc. she blew you off. No need to try and figure out why.

 

[The Simple Man]

Maybe she knows you are gay, Gaylan.

 

[Maximus Rex]

=What other men here have been baffled by a rejection and left thinking "wow...did SHE just really turn me down?"

When a Hoe Leaves Your A$$, Don’t Try to Figure It Out.


“All women are fickle. Hoes are no different. Women function on 99.9% emotions. B*tches leave for the dumbest reasons or no reason at all. Least of all the reason you think it is. And I’ll tell you something else, if you know why the hoe left, you weren’t pimpin’. If a real pimp spots a problem he’s obligated to solve it. That’s why when a hoe leaves you’re not suppose to know why.”-Rosebudd The American Pimp by John "Rosebudd," D!ckson

Replace "leaves your a$$," with "rejects your a$$," and you'll find that Rex feels the same way about the subject that Rosebudd does.

 

[Albatross953]

Just ask yourself who lost more because she said no.

And then move on. Its actually something I'm doing for myself right now
.

 

[foreverAFC]

another useless thread

 

[tripod23]

Attraction Isnt A Choice...........there Are Lots Of Hot Chicks Out There That I Just Dont Fancy......simple

Most Of The Time There Is Just Something About Someone That Hits That Spot.......a Lot Of What The Above Guys Said Is Also True .

Dont Take It Personally .....just Keep Moving Forward Bro...

 

[Jaylan]

another useless thread

Oh joy, another useless post.

 

[Jaylan]

Maybe she knows you are gay, Gaylan.

Super cool join date brah (Nov 2013). Who's sock account are you?

 

[foreverAFC]

Oh joy, another useless post.

you posted a thread about how you are upset that some chick rejected you, what do you want us to do for you ?

 

[Albatross953]

I think its a legit question. Even if he's really just looking for reinforcement of what he already knows. You can't win them all.
There's a lot of advice around here to go dumpster diving, but I think a guy needs to have his head on straight first.

And I strongly disagree with shooting low. Too much chance you'll never progress beyond that.

 

[PlayHer Man]

She can see the beta faggot within.

The reality is there is no consistancy. I've had HB6's reject me and HB8 jump on my c0ck like there's no tomorrow.

If you expect consistency with women.. and you expect 100% of women to have the same reaction to the same approach 100% of the time.. then you're an idiot. Even with the SAME WOMAN you won't get consistency.

Anything could be going on in her life at the time. Could of just lost her job, got cheated on, met someone else she likes, etc.

 

[Jaylan]

Not in approaching. I hate cold approaching so when I do approach it has to be a pretty damn fine girl, usually out of my league. I can do this because I usually have a gf/plate that is around my range in looks. If you think about it, this is how many women are. They have guy(s) in they're own range to bang, they are only looking to go WAY out of their league.

The rejections that are more puzzling are the women in my social/work circles that are below me in looks but treat me bad instead of at a minimum showing me basic respect. I'd expect they would treat me well.

Obviously LTR rejections are the worst. I get fooled around on often by girls I consider at or below my SMV. And while I'm not dating virgins they're still hardly the worst of women so the ego takes a hit.

I had to call out a chick at work twice for trying to give me crap for no reason. Like this chick legit gives me attitude for no reason at times. Then I noticed she only did it around her little gal pal at work. Meanwhile whenever I talk to her and her buddy isnt there, shes uber nice and talkative.

Its funny how chicks operate. Im almost certain that shes into me(based on how she looks at me and behaves when her friend isnt around), but shes naturally combative and puts up a front for her friends.

you posted a thread about how you are upset that some chick rejected you, what do you want us to do for you ?

The point of the thread was to ask others dudes if they ever think so highly of themselves that they think "oh no this b!tch didnt just reject me, lol". Im not mad that I didnt get with a chick under my league. I was just surprised by it really. Its all good though....as my ego will prevail.

 

[DragonBlood]

But how does she KNOW your above her league? I dont think girls rank looks as much as status and rapport.

This should explain all
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XYU1a0lTTTw

 

[Demonpenz]

you aren't dangerous enough. Take her shop lifting.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Happened to me a few times, I am either bagging chicks or not

 

[Robert28]

Don't worry about it. I got rejected the other day and I didn't even ask the girl out! I stopped by a local bakery to pickup a cake to take to a family Thanksgiving thing. The girl that was helping me was decent, nothing special. Certainly not someone I'd remember 5 mins after talking to. Anyways, I was paying for the cake when another girl came out and told her the one I was trying to buy was already spoken for (even though I'm there and have the money, but whatever). No biggie, no sense in getting mad over a stupid cake. So I pick out another one and she gave me $10 off. Cool. I said "thanks for looking out for me with the discount. I might have to invite you over to Thanksgiving dinner to return the favor." Now, anyone with half a brain new I was kidding with the way I said it. I would expect most people to laugh and be like "haha yeah you might!" or something along those lines. No, this fvcking idiot girl took me serious and gave me a serious look and said "my boyfriend would kill me." I was like "um ok? I was kidding anyways."lol

 

[DonGorgon]

4s 5s and 6s have been elevated in value lately due too male desperation

 

[FairShake]

If you're trying to get laid to validate yourself, even just a little, then yes, rejection will make you scratch your head.

If you're trying to get laid to get laid then rejection will just send you scurrying to the next piece of cooz.

You're probably not her type. No big deal.

 

[DarkDetective50]

OP, you shouldn't have given up so easily. You should have persisted and pressed on for her number WITHOUT giving yours. How? Use a witty comeback like "Wow. That's a coincidence. I don't give my number out either but let's make a deal. You give me your number and I give you mine." It might make her loosen up a bit and laugh and say okay.

Some prudes may still refuse at which point you can just move the conversation onto another topic and close out. Don't waste your time.