"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ever notice that you're always reading stories about a homeless guy and/or criminal with a girlfriend?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
His last arrest landed him in prison. He was on parole, randomly drug tested and staying clean. His girlfriend? Not so much. She loaned him her car and then reported it stolen.
But yet there are loads of engineers in Orange County that can't get a girlfriend? The gods must be crazy! :down:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

But yet there are loads of engineers in Orange County that can't get a girlfriend? The gods must be crazy! :down:
Men that are engineers more often than not are very intelligent nerdy types of guys, some of whom may be placed on the autistic spectrum. With that said, many women do not find such men attractive at all, despite the fact that those guys more than likely make really good money and would be stable partners.

The fact that this woman chooses to spread her legs for this loser homeless guy says far more about her than the men that can't get a girlfriend. Women time after time go for losers like this guy because he is something they can work on, something they can "fix", etc. This guy to her is a challenge, imagine how she'd feel if she could actually make this guy halfway decent and functional?

There is a reason why many non western cultures do not allow women to have any final say in regards to whom they marry. Marrying for "love" is really only something you'd see in the west until relatively recently. Arranged marriages were far more often the norm.
 
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