"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ever notice that you're always reading stories about a homeless guy and/or criminal with a girlfriend?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
His last arrest landed him in prison. He was on parole, randomly drug tested and staying clean. His girlfriend? Not so much. She loaned him her car and then reported it stolen.
But yet there are loads of engineers in Orange County that can't get a girlfriend? The gods must be crazy! :down:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

But yet there are loads of engineers in Orange County that can't get a girlfriend? The gods must be crazy! :down:
Men that are engineers more often than not are very intelligent nerdy types of guys, some of whom may be placed on the autistic spectrum. With that said, many women do not find such men attractive at all, despite the fact that those guys more than likely make really good money and would be stable partners.

The fact that this woman chooses to spread her legs for this loser homeless guy says far more about her than the men that can't get a girlfriend. Women time after time go for losers like this guy because he is something they can work on, something they can "fix", etc. This guy to her is a challenge, imagine how she'd feel if she could actually make this guy halfway decent and functional?

There is a reason why many non western cultures do not allow women to have any final say in regards to whom they marry. Marrying for "love" is really only something you'd see in the west until relatively recently. Arranged marriages were far more often the norm.
 
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