"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ever notice girls never call you out on your lies?

Furyguy

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Wondering if anyone else has noticed this. Outright lies I have told to women which later have been proven to be blatantly untrue. Yet none of them have EVER called me on it.

Not surface things, like "I drive a Maserati and live in a million dollar home." More stuff like "I would never abandon a friend even if she betrayed me" or "If I met the right girl I would certainly consider getting married young" (LOL). What they want to hear at the time to make them sleep with me, I'm sure we've all been there.

I don't know if they just forget what I said, or don't notice, or don't care, it's pretty weird though, I never ever hear anything about it later.

You guys all get this too, right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scars

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I think in a sick demented way they WANT to be lied to. It's kind of like all the times when I used to joke with my girlfriend when I would say "always do everything for you!" (cook etc..) which was blatantly untrue. She used to cook for me. And she would say stuff like "Yeah right, I do everything for YOU!" This kind of crap gets them so horny, and I don't know why. Also, actions speak louder than words. Verbally you can be a total AFC. "I love you baby", "you mean so much to me" blah blah, but if your actions don't show it.. she will pick up on it. They love this kind of sick sh!t.

-Scars
 

Crissco

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Not true. Ive been called out before bro. Easy to turn around on them but ive been called out. Maybe its jut the type of girls I attract.
 
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