"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ever have a girl doing nervous blinking when talking to you?

Atom Smasher

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I've been talking with this 50 y.o. Human Resources woman (very well preserved) at an office that I frequent, and we definitely have a chemistry. Funny because when I first met her I disliked her.

She is refreshingly straightforward and very perceptive.

I notice that when she talks to me she does this nervous blinking, which is actually kind of cute but of course could be a yella flag. It's the kind of deliberate, strong blink that people do when they're nervous, not the quick blinks that we all do.

Do any of you have experience with a "blinker"? I'm posting this merely out of curiosity and not out of concern of any kind. I'm just enjoying playing with her a bit right now and I was recalling how she was blinking.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She is on prescription medication. I recommend Spirulina, Valerian, Apple Cider Vinegar, Colloidal Silver and an enema.
 
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