"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ever had a woman tell you she has hepititis after dateing for 8 months??

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catman said:
All tests were negitive :D Yes it is indeed a sad thing that a person must know what all the different letters associated with this disease mean as well.The doctor didnt mention any shots but i will certainly look into getting some as i certainly dont want to go through this again!! Sure is a set back towards restoring my faith and trust in women and could have been prevented with continued use of a condom;) Thanks again for all the replies and support!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Excellent, great to hear that you are in good health.

Don't make this mistake again. ;) I know this woman's behavior wasn't your fault, however take ownership of who you choose to be with.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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catman said:
All tests were negitive :D Yes it is indeed a sad thing that a person must know what all the different letters associated with this disease mean as well.The doctor didnt mention any shots but i will certainly look into getting some as i certainly dont want to go through this again!! Sure is a set back towards restoring my faith and trust in women and could have been prevented with continued use of a condom;) Thanks again for all the replies and support!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Not be negative, but there's a time called "window period" during which the virus is invisible to the tests because your body has yet to produce the antibodies. For hep it should be 6 to 9 months. When was the last time you had sex with that woman?
 

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Dear God of anxiety,
You seem well informed and also well named...Should he take the Shots???
 

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There are only shots for hep B available as far as I know. The doctor whom I spoke to said it was a smart thing to do. Though the shots won't cure the existing infection, if present. The OP should consult with the doctor to see if now is the good time for them or he should wait for the aforementioned window period to pass and to the tests again, just to be totally sure that he's clear.

Scaramouche said:
well named...
You've no idea :).
 

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Last time we had sex was 2-20?? I will wait 6 months and take another test and will ask about the shots as well? Thanx again fellas!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cool, consult with your doc about the exact time you have to wait, it depends on the type of tests they're using. Good luck!
 

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I had something similar. My ex-wife told me 6 months into our marriage (and after a 1-1/2 year engagement) that her parents are broke, and we need to start sending them money.

Different disease, same female tactic.
 

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:D Thats funny
 

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Dear Falcon,
Thankyou a very valuable contribution.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Falcon25 said:
I would seek monetary damages and sue her ass if she is wealthy, especially if she knew and kept it from you. I would get treatment right away. Hep is nothing to keep away from the doctor. It eats at you slowly. Look for symptoms of jaundice and severe weakness. It is a nasty disease. I don't think I could control myself in beating her ass, you are a patient man.
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Man, that is f*cked up. That is NEED TO KNOW INFORMATION.

Here is the lowdown:

Hep A is transmitted via ingestion of fecal matter, even in microscopic amounts.
Hep B is transmitted via contact with infectious blood, semen, and other body fluids from having sex with an infected person, sharing contaminated needles to inject drugs, or from an infected mother to her newborn.
Hep C is transmitted via contact with the blood of an infected person, primarily through sharing contaminated needles to inject drugs.
Hep D is transmitted via contact with infectious blood, similar to how HBV is spread.
Hep E is transmitted via ingestion of fecal matter, like Hep A.

I suspect it's probably C, which is why she hasn't told you. Treatment is not always necessary with Hep C, but keep in mind this is a virus, not a bacterium.

I think you should file suit for intentional omission of her communicable disease status. That is a serious crime.

This. There are some really high profile cases of people suing for damages when their partners hid an STD from them. As a matter of fact he should also file a police report if he has one now--she may even get charged with a crime if it's determined she crossed the line regarding intent. The all clear on his test can just be the quiet before the storm. It can take a while for these things to pop positive and he's not out of the woods yet. This is why they say you should stop having sex for 6 months and then get tested. It's the nuke it from orbit way to do STD testing--it's the only way to be sure.
 
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