"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ever had a girl tell you "Stop running game" ?

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Just curious, cause it just happened to me, she didnt say it in an way as if she was annoyed or mad or wateva she said it in a "smiling way".

When she said it i said " im not running game, i got no game" i said it in a sarcastic way but i guess she believed me cause she said "lol thats the first time someone has said that" in reply i said "why lie"


I dont know if this is a bad or good thing, im leaning towards bad but i guess im posting this to see what would be the right way to handle this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think she knows that you're running things in the relationship. She knows you know how she/woman work. And thats very good my friend. You gave a good answer aswell man, cause the fact is, you arent into 'game', cause she's already yours! So, yeah. Dont worry.
Have a good one!
 

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this individual is not my gf though
 
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