Ever had a girl show you such exaggerated body language IOIS that you were like WTF?

[BlahUgh]

Ok theres this girl that shows exaggerated IOIs everytime I pass her, but whats kinda wierd is that she doesn't really maintain eye contact for a long time or anything.

So the IOIs I'm talking about are

she'll spot me and do some wierd as thing where she like grabs/combs her hair (preening motion) and turns her head all the way to the side, so that all I can see is the side of her head and hair

she spotted me walking down the hallway toward her and bent her head all the way back so that her head was looking up at the celing and her breasts were thrust forwards

on two seperate occasions shes seemingly come out of nowhere and ran in front of me quickly, and today when she did that she was swaying her hips so much that I was amazed.

so this is basically a two part question

1.. has anyone seen something like this before?

2.. if a chick wants you to approach her and is open to talking, wouldn't she maintain eye contact with you when she saw you?

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Why yes I have

Thing is I never let it bother me. Next time I sarge this is going to be something I watch for

What I have always done in the past is to let her mezmerize me. If she believes she can wrap my around her little finger, I'll show her how good I can wrap. Bow tie and everything, I let myself get dragged into her world... usually after a bout with her I have extreme confidence for the rest of the day!!

If she shows confident BL, I return it. There are so many little games and tells girls give that you would be amazed. You've got to practice being fun and friendly and not focused on SEX all of the time. Sometimes you just have to be focused on making a new friend to learn something.

I like to be overt with my BL when I talk to her as well. Just show her how funny it is and how I've noticed it, without actually SAYING it. Fancy BL is key. Work routines into your little game and they figure out what you want pretty durned fast.

example... she's swaying her hips and you notice

start swaying your hips and than put your hands to exemplify the motion. When she stops and notices you and asks if your teasing her, give her a stern look. Than grab her hips and make her wiggle them again and say "keep walking" you can throw in little jibes of conversation after walking...

Stroking hair, looking up... those are ways of pretending not to be interested. Some girls are experts at the stuff. Sometimes it is difficult to even tell where they came up with the ideas they are so crazy For me and BL, I just walk up to them and mirror them again. C+F is the way I see it now, it's just saying "I can do that too"

 

[NorPacWolf]

YOU'RE GETTING AI'S NOT IOI'S BUT IT'S ALL GOOD

You're getting classic AI's from this chick. FYI, an AI (approach invitation) is a signal from a girl that she wants you to talk to her. An IOI, or indicator of interest, takes place while you are "in set" (i.e., already engaged in friendly conversation) with a girl. An IOI could be her touching you, asking for your name, blushing, giggling, etc.

Bottom line: you'll only get so many AI's from this girl before she gives up on you. Approach this girl the very next time you see her.

Wolf

Originally posted by BlahUgh
Ok theres this girl that shows exaggerated IOIs everytime I pass her, but whats kinda wierd is that she doesn't really maintain eye contact for a long time or anything.

So the IOIs I'm talking about are

she'll spot me and do some wierd as thing where she like grabs/combs her hair (preening motion) and turns her head all the way to the side, so that all I can see is the side of her head and hair

she spotted me walking down the hallway toward her and bent her head all the way back so that her head was looking up at the celing and her breasts were thrust forwards

on two seperate occasions shes seemingly come out of nowhere and ran in front of me quickly, and today when she did that she was swaying her hips so much that I was amazed.

so this is basically a two part question

1.. has anyone seen something like this before?

2.. if a chick wants you to approach her and is open to talking, wouldn't she maintain eye contact with you when she saw you?

 

[El MonoLoco]

Damn Wolf I really like the way you explain thing.....you should be a teacher


BlahUgh


Is this some chick you work with or is she in one of your classes at school?

and today when she did that she was swaying her hips so much that I was amazed.

Response:
Hey you want some fry's with that shake?

:crackup:

 

[BlahUgh]

So next time she does something like this what should I do? Whats wierd about it is that she doesn't really make eye contact while doing them.

 

[Borgon]

mtf am not trying to bash you or anything but you still ask what you should do? Simple, grab your balls and walk up to her, say hello, hi, whatsup whatever.

 

[ScrewIt]

this is a subconscious, yet nervous IOI. the more intimidated girls react this way...the confident ones usually give EC.

i recall something similar with this girl in last semester's class.
one time we were sitting in office type chairs in the class and saw i was behind her. so she spun her chair around a few times.
Another time i was behind her, she (similarly to you) stretched/bent backwards where her face and chest thrusted towards the ceiling.

what you should is go over and say hi.