"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ever gotten rejected by a chick or man up then..

Naughty Ninja

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Have you ever gotten rejected by a chick or didn't man up at the time then seen her sometime later on and thought to yourself: "What the fvck was I thinking with THAT one?!" and were GLAD you didn't wind up with her?

(Either she aged like sh1t, gained weight, wound up being a loon, or ended up being the town slvt butt etc.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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heh yup - had rose tinted glasses on, failed to go for it.

noticed her around the bar weeks later and realised she was a total slore
my buddy took one for the team though, and skewered her butthole like a champ.

god bless that man
 

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Not that bad, but yes. I used to go after young hotties, but when I seen them years later, it was like "eh..." Funny thing... I'd turn down / avoid older, former hotties (you could just tell) in favor of the younger ones who were pretty much the exact same thing. And I'd do it with those former younger girls who have now aged, as well. HA HA.

But I see people who USED to be attractive - not one's I necessarily dated, or were into - and now look like ****. Almost EVERYONE gained weight, had kids, into drugs and alcohol, and just went off the deep end. Not that they weren't always this way - it just finally caught up to them. They're still crazy, miserable, and drama-obsessed as always. Going to bars, whoring around, being jerks, talking about getting laid and drunk... They'll never change.

Hotties still definitely have it better, though. Some of those decently attractive girls look like complete **** now.

But I don't see or hear from any of them anymore, since Fakebook was deleted, and my phone got disconnected / destroyed. **** the past, and all those fake losers in it.

Not that I should talk... Gained weight, became crazy, suffered from major depression, became a recluse, hated life, etc, as a result of bad choices and a shallow lifestyle. But there's been improvements, and I feel better than when I was considered good looking and cool. Once I get back in shape, get a life, don't associate with losers or *******s, and feel good about myself - things are going to be AWESOME. None of that shallow, egotistical, immature, low self esteem, weak nice guy doormat pushover ****. No more bars or parties or dumb skanks, either. And no one here really knows me, so it's a fresh start. Reborn again, *****es. :woo:

But there's definitely been a lot of missed chances that I don't regret - now that I'm more mature and realize all these things that I didn't before - as they were happening at the time. All of those people were garbage, so I didn't miss anything, and am glad to not have been fully accepted for being different. Could be into all that **** still - fully into it.

Should've still ****ed a lot of those girls, but oh well. I'm definitely faring a lot better than all those dysfunctional ******* players did, and still remained true. God's got this under control. :up:
 

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Yes I have a few times. I always feel much better being single or having another chick instead.
 
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