"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ever get past the "omg she smiled at me phase" etc etc phase?

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Just wondering if anyone here has ever gotten past that phase where these small meaningless supposedly "subtle hints" they give to you to the point where you don't OVER analyze it anymore at the workplace

1. Smiling at you
2. same chick walking past you all the time
etc etc
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yea. a little bit tense (more like tiny) but if she's my type, personally & physically i'm in the daddy-likes mode

lol there's was this girl in my model, sharp face (really big) like so tough-chick-ish and between her eyebrows was always flexed like someone's speed-talking a lecture about quantum physics to her
Never really talked to her before but when i said "Hey :) ..." once, i swear to god her brows relaxed, face was all soft i was like "Dayumn...."

Why ? why you wanna know ?

Do you find yourself over-analyzing when girls ioi you ?
 

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not as much as before, lets just say it went from on a scale level of 10 of 10 to 1 of 10.. so not as BADLY anymore..
 

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yeah i've gone through this phase. when i was ignorant and blind to reality, i'd take anything from a smile and above as an IOI. I'd wonder and wonder and rarely act, and if i did act, it was something incredibly naive and stupid (think giant plushy rose with my cologne on it stupid)

God i was an idiot.

Now, pft, it all seems so platonic. the only real IOI i really notice anymore is Kino.
and if something else catches my eye, say eye contact, constant laughing, whatever, i'll test it. Say, sneak up behind her, wrap my arm on her shoulders and initiate conversation.

That usually weeds them out quickly. Or just increases their attraction :)

Of course, you don't want to take this TOO far. I mean, i can see it already.

"Yeah this chick gave me this IOI today, i was shoving my **** into her ass and she started screaming 'Yes! Oh god yes! **** my ass!' and **** like that. I dunno, it might just be my imagination."

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