"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ever get looked down upon for your job

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u ever had ppl kind of look down on you after you tell them what you do., oh your a pastry chef. or oh you dont have university. oh just 8 months of schooling hey. or before when i was in school i was just going to college and not univ and they would say oh . or if you in the IT field as computer repair person and not some kind of big shot PC engineer making the chips. well what happens if you just cant get into the univeristy or marks


they dont care to talk to you after you tell them what you do. and some of them give you that smirk or look like their better than you

you ask them what they do and generally they have a univ degree in some kind of technical engieering or high end white collar job in a corp company.

this is not with dating or with girls, but just casual talking with ppl you meet at events or social networking. some through church or volunteer co workers,. just everywhere you go.
im guessing most girls wont date a guy with lower education.

i like to hear your stories, of ppl if it has happened to you before. what do u think of it and this

im chinese but westernized one.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can't give examples about me, but I know 3 girls(ages 19 and 20) university students, 2 of them are very very good at uni, and the 3 of them have fallen for guys o really poor education
the first has been daing a guy for 3 years that has left hgh school in te ninth grade to work a job for like... minimum wage
the second is chasign a guy that repeated the ninth grade 3 times, he is older than her and he is not in the university yet :p she's very beautiful, ok intelligence I guess, he's not so great looking nor smart and he's teasing her!

the third likes a guy that also repeated soem grades a zillion times, he has a business major, graduatd t the age of like 25...

I'd say they are exceptions, but the truth is I don't know that many women that well, so that's like the case of 3 out of 4 women I know :p

but yeah I'm insecure about these things apparently like you, because I changed majors into computer science, not a job renown for making people millionnaires
 
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