"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ever feel like a social outcast trying to pickup women?

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In any situation I seem to be the only guy trying to pickup women. All others go to cafeteria strictly for EATING, go to malls strictly for SHOPPING, go to bars strictly for hanging out with friends, go to aerobics strictly for EXERCISING. I'm the only guy going to these places with pickup plans. I feel particularly awkward when the guy that works in the mall sees me with a strange look on his face wondering what I'm walking round and round not buying anything, and why I keep checking out the mall eatery from time to time without eating. Ever feel this way?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No one in the mall knows your life story! To them, you are just a normal guy in a mall! it is all in your head you queer! If you can't even make it in India with the girls, what makes you think you will have any success in USA?
 
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I don't know about the malls in USA but malls in India are very costly and I normally wouldn't buy any item from there coz I see no reason to. So I feel rather awkward pretending to be interested in some item and asking a girl's opinion about which one I should buy.
 

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I have never tried this, I don't go to malls often because girls tend to be with thir boyfriend's or friends, you rarely see a girl by herself. I would be too shy to approach.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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STFU already, you sicken me and everyone else on this forum. Do us a favour and delete your account and continue to be Mr. Ali Baba indian AFC.
 
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+1 to Crackers444. There was no one girl alone in the mall; most of them with their boyfriends(wonder why everyone else has no trouble hooking up)/family and some with their girlfriends but they seemed too involved actually buying things (unlike me), that I didn't feel like making a move.
 

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AreYouSingleFemale said:
In any situation I seem to be the only guy trying to pickup women. All others go to cafeteria strictly for EATING, go to malls strictly for SHOPPING, go to bars strictly for hanging out with friends, go to aerobics strictly for EXERCISING. I'm the only guy going to these places with pickup plans. I feel particularly awkward when the guy that works in the mall sees me with a strange look on his face wondering what I'm walking round and round not buying anything, and why I keep checking out the mall eatery from time to time without eating. Ever feel this way?
No, I do approaches at the cafeteria all the time. Its great practice, and I got some #'s too as a added bonus.

Yeah its a shame that most guys aren't doing that, but they're doing pickups in the class room. Oh well their loss.
 

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I did a pick up at school, girl that was in my class, would often be at library annd around school at the same point in time as me, it was ironic. I got her email address, she never replied back. I wasn't sure at the time if she had a bf or not(kinda figured she did), she wasn't very interested in me, it became apparent.
 

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lol @ the first four people making some kind of comments on this guys sexual preference.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ali-baba is a middle-eastern name, He is Indian - so there is a difference. I would have a fun time dissing you, illusionist, but insulting people with mental disorders is not my thing.
 

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DJVladdy said:
Ali-baba is a middle-eastern name, He is Indian - so there is a difference. I would have a fun time dissing you, illusionist, but insulting people with mental disorders is not my thing.
Hahaha vlad your awesome. :crackup:
 
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Sure, I feel like that sometimes. People are out there going about their business, while you are sort of loitering around, solo, hoping to make a connection with someone that goes somewhere.

So, if you are lucky, you get a connection. Once you get that connection, who cares?
 

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lol queer,*****,fagatron.....dam why all the hate? As for AYSF you aren't the only one approaching, and even if you are thats because the rest of the males are *****'s, unless their actually there for a reason.
 

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people are mad racist n this forum. illusionist is a clown. to the OP alot of the girls in the malls are really young teeny boppers, where im from so i never mack any b!tches there!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm ****ing Indian and ONLY approach girls outside my race. Indian people look at me and think I'm whitewashed. People may look at me weird if I'm cold approaching and busting on a girl. DO I CARE? If I do, then I'll get blown the **** out. So stop ****ing caring, you *****. Indian PUAs exist...Ever heard of Matador?


And Illusionist, no need to bring your racism into this thread. Keep your retarded stereotypical views to yourself.
 

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SubtleT said:
I'm ****ing Indian and ONLY approach girls outside my race. Indian people look at me and think I'm whitewashed. People may look at me weird if I'm cold approaching and busting on a girl. DO I CARE? If I do, then I'll get blown the **** out. So stop ****ing caring, you *****. Indian PUAs exist...Ever heard of Matador?


And Illusionist, no need to bring your racism into this thread. Keep your retarded stereotypical views to yourself.
go blow up a building. The OP made this thread to garner reactions just like yours.
 

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Quicksilver, ban this fvcktard please

because i think nobody has a problem with morons posting, that are FUNNY. You are just an idiot, and don't even provide entertainment value.
Ban
 

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Illusionist said:
go blow up a building. The OP made this thread to garner reactions just like yours.
Oh that's not racist at all. What makes you better than the OP?
 
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