"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ever Dumped A Chick & Tried To Get Her Back?

soulforge

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Any cases of taking a girl back as a fuk buddy?

i,m at a point where i realise a relationship with this girl is only going to end in disaster.. but the sex was so damn good

How long would you normaly wait after a break up, to try and get her back as a fuk buddy??

It Was a 4 month kinda relationship.. been no contact 3 weeks...

Any of you guys get an ex back as a fuk buddy, how did it work out for you?

I know it usually ends in disaster lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You can get an ex as a FB, but only if she's still into you man.
Go on a date, and later you tell her straight out that you want to have a purely sex relationship. You can tell her before the sex (if you're ballsy), after the sex, or call her the next day to break the news.

I've had several girls agree to this - however it was not an equal relationship as I could feel that they still kinda had their hopes up I'd come around and commit.

But hey, we're all adults and I don't have a bad conscience as long as I'm 100% honest. I let them sleep over, otherwise it feels like I've paid a prostitute :p
 

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soulforge said:
Any cases of taking a girl back as a fuk buddy?

i,m at a point where i realise a relationship with this girl is only going to end in disaster.. but the sex was so damn good

How long would you normaly wait after a break up, to try and get her back as a fuk buddy??

It Was a 4 month kinda relationship.. been no contact 3 weeks...

Any of you guys get an ex back as a fuk buddy, how did it work out for you?

I know it usually ends in disaster lol

No man If she wanted to be a f-buddy SHE would NOT be in NC. She would atleast put in minimal effort if she wanted to continue to f*c you. It's as simple as that, she knows there are plenty of other suckers on pof that she can go back to.
 

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hockeyfreak79 said:
No man If she wanted to be a f-buddy SHE would NOT be in NC. She would atleast put in minimal effort if she wanted to continue to f*c you. It's as simple as that, she knows there are plenty of other suckers on pof that she can go back to.

True man.. i doubt she will reach out to me... as i dumped her, and there are many options on pof..

Mam these pof girls are truly not worth getting involved with
 

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I went ghost on this girl I use to fvck when she kept asking me to date her(yet we barely even know each other). I was in her area and I tried getting back with her for a quickie lol...plan didn't work out, still wanted me to tell her I love her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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soulforge

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Well its been over a month since i last saw her.. i,ve managed to get another plate on board, the sex is ok, but she has a nice body..

But the sex with my ex who i was seeing was crazy.. I wanted to try some kinky stuff with her... 3sum etc.. i think she would have been up for it..


Anyhow since i dumped her, she went back on pof.. not sure of she is seeing anyone.. maybe she is, maybe she isn't..


Was thinking about trying to plate her up? Reach out and and try to get her back as a fuk buddy..


Previously it was a relationship.. lots of affection between us and sh@t...

But now just want to bang her once a while... altho i may fall back into the trap of catching feelings for her again..

It was kind of a mutual breakup... she pulled back after a petty argument and stopped communicating with me... but i officialy ended it with her..

Strong possibility she may rejects me, and i end up giving her all the power..

I like the idea of getting some sex out of her, try some fantasies.. but seems like a very risky move too...


Any of you guys dumped a chick and how soon did you get her back as a fuk buddy?

Did she come back to you after you dumped her? Or did you have to be the one reaching out to her?
 

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soulforge said:
Yeh there is problems... she can be quite rude and ****y sometimes... i had to call her out on her behaviour, but she starts playing the victim and stops all communication with me..

She sabotages the relationship.. i,m not perfect, we both handled the situation quite bad this time round...

But she makes zero effort to resolve things... victim mode kicks in... so i either grovel like a dog to make up with her... or the relationship is finished..

These are my choices!! Sound like a healthy long term relationship to you???


Either she does not care about the relationship... or she is too proud and stubborn to reach out and fix things..

Or she wants to gain the power in the relationship...


Any hope here at all??? I sense none, other than to dump her ass

Why in your right mind would you ever consider taking her back within the confines of a relationship? YOUR SELF ESTEEM HAS TO BE LOW TO EVEN CONSIDER THIS TOXIC B*TCH..... Really man, ask yourself why??
 

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KingBeef said:
Why in your right mind would you ever consider taking her back within the confines of a relationship? YOUR SELF ESTEEM HAS TO BE LOW TO EVEN CONSIDER THIS TOXIC B*TCH..... Really man, ask yourself why??


This is true man.. i am feeling pretty low right now.. i had a shoulder injury some months back, so i,m not hitting the gym so much.. lost some size and muscle..

Then i split up with this chick that I really liked.. so been on a little downer confidence wise!
 
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soulforge said:
This is true man.. i am feeling pretty low right now.. i had a shoulder injury some months back, so i,m not hitting the gym so much.. lost some size and muscle..

Then i split up with this chick that I really liked.. so been on a little downer confidence wise!
Throw yourself into your workout and life improvement. Remove things that remind you of her. You have to heal and get back into yourself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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