ever deal with a girl in a long term relationship?

[duke104]

I met this girl at a party last thursday and I couldn't help but notice she was pretty flirty with me (she kept grabbing me to go dance, lots of playful touching, etc) I knew who this girl was before I met her through a mutual friend and I knew that she's been dating some dude for like 3 years.

Later that night we were outside having a cigarette and my buddy asked her about her boyfriend. I forgot exactly what she said but from what I took from it it sounded like she wasn't too into him (I do remember her saying that at this point in the relationship she's only attracted to his personality, or something like that).

I also saw her the next 2 nights cause we were both at the same parties and I did notice that she was by me the majority of the night and not once by her boyfriend.

Anyways, the girl gave mer her number and we've been texting here and there. Would it be a bad idea to go after her cause of the whole boyfriend thing, despite the signs shes giving off?

 

[Jair213]

u posted this twice? wtf

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Let her chase you. Don't give her the time of day until she dumps the BF.

This HB7 girl who has a LDR boyfriend was chasing me for a bit. Kept hitting me up to go drinking and have sleepovers. She's fun to hangout with so I said "sure why not" (had no intentions of making moves).

We got really drunk one night, went back to her place and I just jumped in her bed as she talked to her roomates about stuff. I said hi to them, but I was hammered and just wanted to get to sleep. ANYWAYS..

The girl jumps into bed with me, I said to her "Hey, you have a boyfriend. I don't think he'd be cool with this, so get out!" playfully. She did, then kept mentioning she was on birth control and all that horsesh1t. I kept bringing up her BF saying stuff like "Why are you on BC when your boyfriend is all the way in texas? That's kinda weird lol."

I like this girl as a friend, but it's really sh1tty that she'd fvck around behind her BF's back with me. I know for a fact if I kissed the girl that night, I'd also be sealing the deal. You can't give these girls what they want.. They have to learn that it is NOT OKAY to cheat. By letting them have your sexual attention, they all ready have an excuse "OH HE CAME ON TO ME, I DIDN'T WANT TO DO IT!" not only that, but if she's afraid of loneliness to the point where she won't dump her BF (which she is if she's spending time with you) then she will probably not hesitate to pull some fake rape charge of some sort on your ass to keep her BF.

Be careful man, it's brackish water you're in.. And it's definitely best to stay out.