"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ever asked a girl out at a fast food window?
- Thread starter Yapper
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It was at whataburger i was grabbin sumthin to eat for lunch i pull up to the window an some old lady was gettin my order ready she walked away, and this chick who was probably a 7 walks up to the window and says "Hey sexy then walks away" i was a loss words an just smiled an laughed.
What do you say to sumthin like that?
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
I used to work in Drivethru myself and occasionally would find myself in that situation. what do you usually do to get the girls interest and info? (since its in such a short time)
This may work,just present yourself as the man.Yapper said:
Yapper;Hey by the way I'm Yapper,and your name is?.?.?.
Worker;(Insert name)
Yapper;Nice to meet you (name). If you don't mind me asking,what time are you off?
Worker;6:00PM,Why?????
Yapper;That's awesome! Now I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that you can hang with me at a game of bowling after work.
Worker;(some stunned response,if its good then you continue if not,just continue on through the drive through)
Yapper;Alright then,what's your number so I can tell you where to meet me?
Michael Chief
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.