"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ever afraid of running into an ex while out with a new girl

MindOverMatter

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If I broke it off with her, it would be awkward, but I wouldn't be afraid of running into her. I've got my own life to live, and I don't let girlfriends - present or ex, dictate how I live it.

If she's the one that broke it off with me, then nothing in the world would make me happier then having her see me with another girl. Call me a vindicative a$$hole, but I enjoy every single second of it.

And if she makes a scene with your new girl, get her ass fired.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sustainable007

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Soma...You wouldnt have the balz to do that...thats because you would be caught up in the advise of this site and deep down inside you would be afraid to give your ex the finger...You would probably be wondering: Is this going to keep her from coming back....?
 

Soma

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hahaha

Dude, if believing that helps you sleep at night, go for it.


Hi, my name is Sustainable007. I'm not a psychologist...but I play one on an internet chat board! Bud um pum pum!
 

disciple

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I tend to date girls that don't live anywhere near each other or in different cities so the chances of running into one while I'm with another is very slim.
 

Ricky

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Hell, Disciple New York is a big enough city it seems like you could date girls at all different part of that city and get away with it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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