AlexTheGreat
Senior Don Juan
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- May 9, 2004
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There's this girl, let's name her Amy. Her and me knew each other for quite a while (around 3 years), but never really got close. We were friends to the same person, so that's how I met her. Lately, we have gotten closer to one another ... and during the last weeks, I noticed she was giving me obvious signs of interest. For example, I helped her out for a project, and the whole time, she kept holding my hand and letting me touch her leg and whatnot.
But here comes the catch : she's never had a relationship. Her friend (through which I met her) says that she's scared of not knowing what to do, which I trust is true, by the way she acts. Anyways, a week ago, we were very close, holding hands and whatnot. During that weekend, she and her friends had a "girls night", and supposedly, she kept talking about how much she liked me, how much she wanted to date me, ...
Then, two days later, I went to a little party, and she was there. Cold as hell. I was going "
wtf" the whole night (I kept my cool, had fun with the other people, but she really weirded me out). After that, the whole next week, she was hella frigid. I was about to NEXT her, but then, I thought of testing her one last time. I ask her out for the weekend. At first, she's smiling, all happy, then she goes "I'll tell you tomorrow". Tomorrow comes, and I ask her again. She goes "I need to talk to you .... but not now". Hmmmm interesting... The next day, I stop her at her locker, and ask her what's up, why she was acting strange all week. She goes "I can't tell you now ... I'm too much of a sissy, so I'll tell you on the phone." I go "yeah, I noticed that you were kindof a sissy", give her a pathetic-type pat on the back, then leave.
Today, I call her, and ask her what was going on. After digging around for a few minutes, I finally get out of her that "she isn't ready for commitment". At that point, I got what I wanted out of her, so I go "ok". She asks me if that was all the reaction I would have. I answer "Yep, that's it. What can I do anyway, you made your decision." and hang up afterwards. (after byes and whatnot).
So, here's the question. I know the girl likes me. She can't flip from "holding hands" to "hell no" in just a weekend, without me even intervening. I know my friends talked only good about me to her, they even pushed her to go out with me, so this all comes from within. How can I get her to turn around and get her to "trust me" ? I know I haven't screwed up yet with her, so everything is still doable. Just help me out, give me pointers or something. :cheer:
But here comes the catch : she's never had a relationship. Her friend (through which I met her) says that she's scared of not knowing what to do, which I trust is true, by the way she acts. Anyways, a week ago, we were very close, holding hands and whatnot. During that weekend, she and her friends had a "girls night", and supposedly, she kept talking about how much she liked me, how much she wanted to date me, ...
Then, two days later, I went to a little party, and she was there. Cold as hell. I was going "
wtf" the whole night (I kept my cool, had fun with the other people, but she really weirded me out). After that, the whole next week, she was hella frigid. I was about to NEXT her, but then, I thought of testing her one last time. I ask her out for the weekend. At first, she's smiling, all happy, then she goes "I'll tell you tomorrow". Tomorrow comes, and I ask her again. She goes "I need to talk to you .... but not now". Hmmmm interesting... The next day, I stop her at her locker, and ask her what's up, why she was acting strange all week. She goes "I can't tell you now ... I'm too much of a sissy, so I'll tell you on the phone." I go "yeah, I noticed that you were kindof a sissy", give her a pathetic-type pat on the back, then leave.Today, I call her, and ask her what was going on. After digging around for a few minutes, I finally get out of her that "she isn't ready for commitment". At that point, I got what I wanted out of her, so I go "ok". She asks me if that was all the reaction I would have. I answer "Yep, that's it. What can I do anyway, you made your decision." and hang up afterwards. (after byes and whatnot).
So, here's the question. I know the girl likes me. She can't flip from "holding hands" to "hell no" in just a weekend, without me even intervening. I know my friends talked only good about me to her, they even pushed her to go out with me, so this all comes from within. How can I get her to turn around and get her to "trust me" ? I know I haven't screwed up yet with her, so everything is still doable. Just help me out, give me pointers or something. :cheer: