"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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events similar to school dances?

nkh78h

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I'm probably going to be flamed by the folks that think school dances are lame, but they were one of the things that made my student years so much fun. I always found it easier to talk to girls at such events. Unfortunately, I haven't had the chance to go to a dances ever since I graduated (my company rarely has parties, and most community dances are for younger teens). Does anyone know what kind of places would offer dances/socials for the Gen Y folk?

There are no shortage of dinner dances offered on cruises, and at fancy restaurants and other special venues, etc., but they tend to be very expensive (at least $50/pp compared to $5 for school dances), and very few younger people go to such events as a results.

The closest one I could find would be bars and dance clubs. However, they often don't play slow songs. And herein lies the rub: I think slow songs are a great way to get to know that "special someone." While there are clubs that do play them, they are few and far between. It's kind of awkward to slow dance with someone to fast songs, even if you know them very well.

Finally, I'm aware of events called "adult proms" becoming popular lately, which primarily targets the 20-30s crowd. Sadly, there aren't any such events near where I live.

Any other places I should go look into?

Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMusic

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You don't need a slow song to slowdance with a girl...
 

Die Hard

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Start learning Bachata and Zouk, then go those parties.
 
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