"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Even the Escorts are a pain

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You got everything for $60?
You mean the session or the "morning after"? If you are talking about the session then I would say it felt like a hook-up.

For both of them (i.e. I saw two different women, $ 60.00 each, both wanted to have sex with me and I refused vaginal sex with both). I refused oral sex with the first one as well, but allowed the second one to suck it. The first one just made me feel comfortable dealing with escorts and was more of a softcore session (i.e. I would bear-hug her, dance next to her nude body, examine her pvssy like I was a 5 year old kid looking at a vagina for the first time in my life (i.e. which incidentally I did when I was a child as a neighbour in the street pulled down her pants to I could see her prepubescent vagina , etc... and like that kid in the neighbourhood, this older escort pvssy was also shaved.). The first escort was a mild experience and was in my system, in a pleasant way for a good time afterwards. I lost the fetish for groping manequins after seeing that escort. The second one was more down and dirty and animalistic. While there was no vaginal penetration there was a soul-tie connection with her that resulted in the worst morning after experience I have ever felt in my life.

I have elaborated extensively in other posts about "the morning after", and "the month after", and less so "in the year after", but I could write a book about how I felt I was demonically attacked to the point of a mental meltdown and felt I would die at some points during those attacks. So, in my mind, I wouldn't want to pay $ 60.00 for an escort if it breaks the mind. I have a very structured and orderly mind and when you tell the mind/body that you can see women like that -- then it feels like a pagan orgy and I can't have that. I remember going to church, or talking to friends, and that escort's ass is in my face while she's sucking my **** pops up in memory and it's jarring. You can't un-experience stuff like that.

Again, I don't know the personal lives of the Suzy/Bianca escort (Dec 4/5, 2014) with or if they are part of a cult or group that dabbles with the occult or the demonic realm. The Suzy didn't give me any vibes, but the Bianca haunted me for a good while after.
 
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When I just can’t take it anymore and I’m sick and tired of the woman chase game I’ll hit up an escort. Usually about once or twice a year.

I am a good looking guy in very good shape and I work hard on it. I cannot believe that I just got rejected by an escort before we ever even met. We texted, setup a time, etc. she cancels saying I’m not her type?? Say what? We aren’t dating sweets.

Now I have experienced the highestblebdl of rejection ever!

in general these escorts are flakes and screwed up in the head. Lots of issues, what do you expect. But geez. Guess I’ll goto a strip clinic.
Brief your conversation. We cannot decide if the conclusion (your rejection) was good or bad.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When I just can’t take it anymore and I’m sick and tired of the woman chase game I’ll hit up an escort. Usually about once or twice a year.

I am a good looking guy in very good shape and I work hard on it. I cannot believe that I just got rejected by an escort before we ever even met. We texted, setup a time, etc. she cancels saying I’m not her type?? Say what? We aren’t dating sweets.

Now I have experienced the highestblebdl of rejection ever!

in general these escorts are flakes and screwed up in the head. Lots of issues, what do you expect. But geez. Guess I’ll goto a strip clinic.
Who cares? Just call another one. However, I'll give you some advice which applies to escorts/pros just as much as any other women - don't let women lead you. You tell her where you want to meet and what you want to do and if she doesn't cooperate, find someone else. Otherwise you'll find that she's also telling you what you can and can't do in bed and it won't be worth the money.
 

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When I just can’t take it anymore and I’m sick and tired of the woman chase game I’ll hit up an escort. Usually about once or twice a year.

I am a good looking guy in very good shape and I work hard on it. I cannot believe that I just got rejected by an escort before we ever even met. We texted, setup a time, etc. she cancels saying I’m not her type?? Say what? We aren’t dating sweets.

Now I have experienced the highestblebdl of rejection ever!

in general these escorts are flakes and screwed up in the head. Lots of issues, what do you expect. But geez. Guess I’ll goto a strip clinic.
Just call the next one.
 

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I think most have closed up shop during the rona and switched to onlyfanz lol.
That's not what has happened here. Allot have employed hand-sanitizers, require or are understanding if their clients are wearing masks, and based on what I have seen, onlyfanz or other things tend to be side-operations with the main thing. Very few escorts are excusively online, but I've seem some crazy prices, like $ 100 for 15 minutes for an online video session and the escort is like a HB6-7. Most prices are not that extreme, but then again its the principle of it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That's not what has happened here. Allot have employed hand-sanitizers, require or are understanding if their clients are wearing masks, and based on what I have seen, onlyfanz or other things tend to be side-operations with the main thing. Very few escorts are excusively online, but I've seem some crazy prices, like $ 100 for 15 minutes for an online video session and the escort is like a HB6-7. Most prices are not that extreme, but then again its the principle of it.
I guess in the USA the supply/demand situation is different, but in most parts of the world the average price is about 50$. In Athens, 25$.

And women in the USA are some of the world's biggest gold diggers. I think there's probably a connection.
 
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