"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Even pornhub is feeling the squeeze !!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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They dont get enough money now that all wankers have an adblocker so now only show trailers or short clips expecting people to pay for membership.
Feel bad for teenage guys now that never experienced the wild west of the internet in the mid 00s.
Feel bad for teenage guys now that never experienced the wild west of the internet in the mid 00s.
Imagine women controlling and being owners of ALL p0rn content, companies, website. It could happen because right now, you are seeing some of that now.
It will be like 1980's where guys have to pay for p0rn except the head guy getting rich won't be a guy.
Same for all brothels, escort services too.
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Who cares. Most porn out there is just too disgusting to look at anyway, and I'm only turned on by escort ads with the sexual fantasy of calling up the ad and making arrangements to meet one, etc.... Unless they can get rid of those too, I still think the temptation to look at escort ads (especially verified ones) will always be there.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm trying to cut out porn completely out of my life and would view that website like 2x a month. Not a prude by any means, but man, porn really rots my brain when I let it in my life.
Anyway, from a selfish point of view, it will make it less appealing now to view that stuff.
Anyway, from a selfish point of view, it will make it less appealing now to view that stuff.
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aren't there several other sites like xvideos, youporn, etc? I'll admit, I perused a few vids on xvideos last night - Sound generally gets me or punches all my buttons to where I almost wouldn't even have to stroke it, just nudge it and the lava flows, but I restrained myself and never let it go ~ trying to keep my nofap streak going cause I thought I was gonna meet up with a young gal today but I didn't cause she's "sick"
It's dangerous to peruse the vids that lead to another that lead to another cause eventually one of em's gonna punch all your buttons and you will not be able to stop the flow
It's dangerous to peruse the vids that lead to another that lead to another cause eventually one of em's gonna punch all your buttons and you will not be able to stop the flow
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Most of them are owned by MindGeek. They own pornhub, youporn, redtube, tube8, gaytube, xtube, brazzers and huge bunch of other huge porn sites. Interestingly, xvideos is actually not owned by MindGeek.
Internet porn is damn near a monopoly and most people don't even know that.