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I really don't see anything "AFC" about that article. (his wife is pretty good looking BTW).

women, contrary to popular belief around here, aren't all bad, slutty soulless *****s. You get the right one in your life and she becomes like the other half of you and you become the other half of her. you compliment each other. it's quite clear that she compliments him very well. nothing AFC about having a woman that gives a **** about you and helps bring out the best in you. Sam Adams, FDR, Henry Ford, Harry Truman, George W. Bush are just a few men off the top of my head who would without question not gotten to where they got in life, without the women in their lives.

There is a reason I put a ring on my wife's finger. A reason that someone like you will never grasp. She helps me be a better me. She knows what makes me tick. She can look at me and tell when I need to take a break, and has the backbone to tell me so. she can look at m and tell me when I need to get my ass up and to work, and isn't so selfish that she wont' tell me to do so when need be. She kicks my ass when I don't go to the gym and it's not an off day because she knows how important my body is to me. She doesn't ask for something unless she really wants or needs it becuse she knows and is in tune with what I want to do financially and knows I need to save money to do it. Any type of conflict in time on what I have to do with my schedule all i have to do is ask and it's done with a smile. She will literarlly throw my ass out of bed if need be im the morning if I'm not up by 6:30am. This is a very big deal to me beucse I am not a morning person, regardless of what type of alarm you put in my room. And becuase i have always worked for myself I never had to be.

I am all for, I assure you, becoming the best man you can be, but don't **** on a woman for being a good wife. that's just childish and immature.
 

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While we're on the subject of celebs...

Tiger Woods has to be the biggest AFC on the planet. This guy let poon completely wreck him.
 

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st_99 said:
While we're on the subject of celebs...

Tiger Woods has to be the biggest AFC on the planet. This guy let poon completely wreck him.
Actually he's just the opposite of AFC. In his case, he just took it too far and got sloppy. Self-destructed.

There is a middle ground here, which is what we should all be aiming for.
 

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backbreaker said:
I am all for, I assure you, becoming the best man you can be, but don't **** on a woman for being a good wife. that's just childish and immature.
Its all in the eye of the beholder.

I see her as controlling and dominant...its not as though he was slacking at life even if he did sleep late...I don't think you can compare you sleeping late vs pound for pound the best fighter in the world....plus whats with giving up the chicken farm?
 

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You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Actually he's just the opposite of AFC. In his case, he just took it too far and got sloppy. Self-destructed.

There is a middle ground here, which is what we should all be aiming for.
go read my backbreakers inferno post. Tiger woods is not only an AFC, he's worse than your AVG AFC.

The only difference between tiger woods and the guy who just found this site, is that tiger has more options to exert his AFCism. He's still AFC and let ***** completely wreck his life. That is the epitome of AFC.

Its all in the eye of the beholder.

I see her as controlling and dominant...its not as though he was slacking at life even if he did sleep late...I don't think you can compare you sleeping late vs pound for pound the best fighter in the world....plus whats with giving up the chicken farm?
You have a distorted view of reality. She's not dominant, she's just helping him shore up some soft spots. Every one has issues they aren't great at even me.

The best analogy I can use is the sopranos. The relationship between Tony And Carmella is perfect for this situation. Tony is your Alpha's Alpha. Yet even with that, while she stayedf out of his business affairs for obvious reasons, she made sure he ate relativly right, she refused to let him lay in bed all day long, regardless of who he was, and she generally got in ihs ass, when he needed it, and he respected her for it. She got in his ass unlike anyone else working for him could with no abandon. yet there was no[ question as to who ran that house hold.

lol man you guys thinking that a good woman should just sit and make sammiches all day and fvck you and be a yes sir woman, that's that's not how it works. having a good woman consists of more than not f'ing someone else.
 

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backbreaker said:
go read my backbreakers inferno post. Tiger woods is not only an AFC, he's worse than your AVG AFC.
This sounds like an AFC to me. Tiger Texts/emails to rachel.. lol

"I know it's brutal on you that you can't be with me all the time. I get it. It f***ing kills me, too. I finally found someone I connect with, someone I have never found like this. Not even at home. You want someone to witness your life. I want you to lay next to me, lay on me or where ever you want to lay. F***. Why didn't we find each other years ago. We wouldn't be having this conversation."

"I thought I was getting to know you, but it feels like I'm just another person who happens to be famous. Every time I think about it, I get a lump in my throat. Some of the other parts of your past really get to me. I don't know what person I was falling for so hard. The one I got to know on the phone, e-mail, text and in person. Or the one who likes famous people. I am so confused, because what my brain is saying and what my heart is saying are two different things. Is it the Rachel I know or the character? That's what's hard. It guts me to think I've fallen for the wrong one."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/12/09/tiger-woods-email-rachel_n_385355.html

what alpha writes sh*t like that?!? haha.
 

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Having and exercising options would make Tiger the opposite of an AFC. But I get what you are saying. Tiger's problem is that he got married when he was still exploring his sexual options. He could have remained a free man, a la George Clooney, had his fun, even run up a reputation in the press, but he made the mistake of committing to one woman when it obviously wasn't what he wanted. Not only did that tarnish him in the public eye (for betraying the commitment), but it cost him millions. In that sense, he IS a chump of some kind.
the mistkae you and many make is thining that being an aFC has to do with the amount of number of women are attracted to you. the two have nothing to do with each other. see ST's post below.

There was a guy who when i was younger, had women lined up at the door to date him, including the girl that borught me here. he was a model. like, seriously, a model. had looks most guys would die for. within 3 weeks my oneitis was blocking his calls and wanted nothing to do with him. he had already proposed! i thought i was bad.

his good looks, got him in the door. hell I had no problem attracting women when I came to this site. I was always considered cute or handsome and could dress or what not and girls liked me. it was when IN opened my mouth and the uncontrollable AFCism that was backbreaker would come out would send girls running the other way, that brought me here.

guys who just never got laid and never had girls find them attractive, seem to think that having girls think you are attractive will cure all your AFC problems but nothing could be further from the truth.
 

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I don't think pac man is all that bad. Mike Tyson in his prime years had the potential to be the best boxer of all time and allowed that good for nothing ***** Robin Givens to be his ultimate downfall. His entire life and his boxing career suffered drastically as a result. It's not far fetched to say it ended there. Poor Mike :down:

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women, contrary to popular belief around here, aren't all bad, slutty soulless *****s.
I agree they aren't ALL bad, slutty soulless *****s. Only 98% of them are. The other 2% are likely made up of nut jobs or closet *****s that have yet to be caught.

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Sam Adams, FDR, Henry Ford, Harry Truman, George W. Bush are just a few men off the top of my head who would without question not gotten to where they got in life, without the women in their lives.
I disagree. A lot of great men in history (also who were married) were known for having a reputation for cheating on their wives. Others (a very small percentage) miraculously had no desire for sex or even the companionship of women for that matter.

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The only difference between tiger woods and the guy who just found this site, is that tiger has more options to exert his AFCism. He's still AFC and let ***** completely wreck his life. That is the epitome of AFC.
Tigers biggest mistake was not only getting married in the first place but also marrying the wrong *****. He sealed the final nail in his coffin by going as far as having kids with her.

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lol man you guys thinking that a good woman should just sit and make sammiches all day and fvck you and be a yes sir woman, that's that's not how it works. having a good woman consists of more than not f'ing someone else.
It's a good woman for me :D
 

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I think a more interesting boxer study is Mike Tyson. Fron the time he was a young teeneager, his life was basically a supervised training regimen. When he had time to "relax" , he would tear through tons of women. A friend of his claimed that he banged 24 women in one night in early 1987.
Then came Robin Givens.
Tyson turned into a guy who seemed to be emotionally controlled by this woman.
I can only guess that he considered her a prize because she was a successful, glamourous actress as oppossed to the "lower caste" women he would use as sexual outlets.
In spite of him being a multimillionaire champion in his sport, he still seemed to think that this woman was out of his league and that he was lucky to have her.
She realized this and used it to her advantage.
Eddie Murphy (a former boyfriend of hers---she also had dated Michael Jordan) said...."Robin Fu**ed everyone in Hollywood, but Mike went and married her !"
In the feminist dominated 80's, Mike Tyson was a beacon of machoness, but even he was led down the path of self destruction by a woman who played with his emotions.
In interesting Hollywood trivia, Brad Pitt was the first guy she dated after her divorce from Mike.
 

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Rubirosa said:
I think a more interesting boxer study is Mike Tyson. Fron the time he was a young teeneager, his life was basically a supervised training regimen. When he had time to "relax" , he would tear through tons of women. A friend of his claimed that he banged 24 women in one night in early 1987.
Then came Robin Givens.
Tyson turned into a guy who seemed to be emotionally controlled by this woman.
I can only guess that he considered her a prize because she was a successful, glamourous actress as oppossed to the "lower caste" women he would use as sexual outlets.
In spite of him being a multimillionaire champion in his sport, he still seemed to think that this woman was out of his league and that he was lucky to have her.
She realized this and used it to her advantage.
Eddie Murphy (a former boyfriend of hers---she also had dated Michael Jordan) said...."Robin Fu**ed everyone in Hollywood, but Mike went and married her !"
In the feminist dominated 80's, Mike Tyson was a beacon of machoness, but even he was led down the path of self destruction by a woman who played with his emotions.
In interesting Hollywood trivia, Brad Pitt was the first guy she dated after her divorce from Mike.
Don't forget he also lost 3 years of his life because of that ****ing Desiree Washington filing rape charges against him. I find it impossible to believe that he would rape that *****. After he came out of prison Don King exploited Mike as well. So is it possible to have an almost unlimited supply of women and still be what many here would call an "AFC" if one is very easy to exploit emotionally?
 

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Rubirosa said:
I think a more interesting boxer study is Mike Tyson. Fron the time he was a young teeneager, his life was basically a supervised training regimen. When he had time to "relax" , he would tear through tons of women. A friend of his claimed that he banged 24 women in one night in early 1987.
Then came Robin Givens.
Tyson turned into a guy who seemed to be emotionally controlled by this woman.
I can only guess that he considered her a prize because she was a successful, glamourous actress as oppossed to the "lower caste" women he would use as sexual outlets.
In spite of him being a multimillionaire champion in his sport, he still seemed to think that this woman was out of his league and that he was lucky to have her.
She realized this and used it to her advantage.
Eddie Murphy (a former boyfriend of hers---she also had dated Michael Jordan) said...."Robin Fu**ed everyone in Hollywood, but Mike went and married her !"
In the feminist dominated 80's, Mike Tyson was a beacon of machoness, but even he was led down the path of self destruction by a woman who played with his emotions.
In interesting Hollywood trivia, Brad Pitt was the first guy she dated after her divorce from Mike.
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robyn givens type of hotness transcends racial barriers. she's just fvcking hot. legs, petite, high cheekbones, classy, what is not to like about her

So is it possible to have an almost unlimited supply of women and still be what many here would call an "AFC" if one is very easy to exploit emotionally? __________________
YES! because the two have abslutly nothing to do with each other.



A guy can have an endless supply of women and be the AFC of the earth. a woman that attracts a lot of women, simply means that he possess something or a trait, or quality that women find desirable. That can be DJism, but it does not have to be. It can be money it can be good looks, he can play in a band, whatever. it can be a lot of things.

He can have an endless supply of women and still put women on a pedastool, he can still do all the things chumps do, he can still believe in the scarcity mantra that women preach, he can still be afraid to approach women, etc. one has NOTHING to do with the other.

like wise, a man can be very DJish yet be single as a mofo.

How you treat women has nothing to do many of them you have.

I would even go so far as to say that ALOT of men who have something, early in life, a quality that women really desire and becuase of that, the man never has to go through with that vast majority of men have to go with women, eh generally ends up worse off in the long run.

Growing up I had 2 best friends. none of us were ugly. we would out and we all on looks wise actually are about all around the same. some women like me more, some liked one of my other friends more, some liked the other more. just depends on the girl.

However, my two best friends, while I wasn't a slouch playing ball or antyhing, were much better than I was. One was an all state point shooting guard and one was a all metro point guard. I was usually either his backup or we all started and I would slide over to the 2 because i can shoot better than my friend was, but he was much more athletic than i was. Plus he is the one that actually tough me how to play the piano, so he was a pretty talented musican. the amount of ass this dude got in school was just stupid rediclous. the point guard musician dude. he actually dated one of the girls on americas top model, the girl from pine bluff i think in season one it was. kept somoen fo the badest girls in little rock on his arm at all times.

By the time we grew up, around the time we were all grown, and out of high school and the basketball dynamic wasn't there anymore, the tables had turned. not so much because she was still attractive, but i was pulling ass on an equal level now.

to make a long story short, he ends up getting engaged ot this overweight girl with dreds, who would go out and hook up with other dudes at bars and he would pretend like he didn't know about it. dude became pathetic over her. by this time my house is a revolving door of pvssy

and even then, wqe would go out, women would be into him. he's not ugly at all. but this dude was had turned into a chump.

the other friend, is so naturally cut up, that even now he has just a line full of women and he's about a natural DJ as you will ever find.
 

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Robin Givens graduated college at age 15 THEN went to Harvard Medical School...she dropped out to pursue acting.

impressive
 

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robyn givens type of hotness transcends racial barriers. she's just fvcking hot. legs, petite, high cheekbones, classy, what is not to like about her

YES! because the two have abslutly nothing to do with each other.



A guy can have an endless supply of women and be the AFC of the earth. a woman that attracts a lot of women, simply means that he possess something or a trait, or quality that women find desirable. That can be DJism, but it does not have to be. It can be money it can be good looks, he can play in a band, whatever. it can be a lot of things.

He can have an endless supply of women and still put women on a pedastool, he can still do all the things chumps do, he can still believe in the scarcity mantra that women preach, he can still be afraid to approach women, etc. one has NOTHING to do with the other.

like wise, a man can be very DJish yet be single as a mofo.

How you treat women has nothing to do many of them you have.

I would even go so far as to say that ALOT of men who have something, early in life, a quality that women really desire and becuase of that, the man never has to go through with that vast majority of men have to go with women, eh generally ends up worse off in the long run.

Growing up I had 2 best friends. none of us were ugly. we would out and we all on looks wise actually are about all around the same. some women like me more, some liked one of my other friends more, some liked the other more. just depends on the girl.

However, my two best friends, while I wasn't a slouch playing ball or antyhing, were much better than I was. One was an all state point shooting guard and one was a all metro point guard. I was usually either his backup or we all started and I would slide over to the 2 because i can shoot better than my friend was, but he was much more athletic than i was. Plus he is the one that actually tough me how to play the piano, so he was a pretty talented musican. the amount of ass this dude got in school was just stupid rediclous. the point guard musician dude. he actually dated one of the girls on americas top model, the girl from pine bluff i think in season one it was. kept somoen fo the badest girls in little rock on his arm at all times.

By the time we grew up, around the time we were all grown, and out of high school and the basketball dynamic wasn't there anymore, the tables had turned. not so much because she was still attractive, but i was pulling ass on an equal level now.

to make a long story short, he ends up getting engaged ot this overweight girl with dreds, who would go out and hook up with other dudes at bars and he would pretend like he didn't know about it. dude became pathetic over her. by this time my house is a revolving door of pvssy

and even then, wqe would go out, women would be into him. he's not ugly at all. but this dude was had turned into a chump.

the other friend, is so naturally cut up, that even now he has just a line full of women and he's about a natural DJ as you will ever find.
Do you think even alpha themselves have beta-like qualities to varying degrees? It seems to me that some here on this forum, those who swear by game and also PUA's tend to favor a very unnatural and exaggerated alpha behavior.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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