"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Even if you want a LTR, never verbalise it....

Reykhel

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We all know...

"Men are the gatekeepers of relationships; women are the gatekeepers of sex. A woman who gives away her sex too easily, loses value in the eyes of others. A man who gives his commitment to easily, loses value in the eyes of others"

If a LTR is your sexual strategy that's your perogative, but to verbalise this to a woman will probably be detrimental to your goal.

So many new posters here stating that they desire a "girlfriend" or a "relationship". Revealing this to a woman is displaying female energy and will kill attraction and probably her desire to have a ltr with you.

"A free bird will never voluntarily fly into a cage."

A masculine man who is enjoying his life and following his life purpose, will never want to voluntarily tie himself down to one woman....

....she doesn't want you to either. She wants to persue you. She wants to be the one that finally conquered you. She gives value to what she has to pay for. That persuit, trying to tie you down becomes an investment. What she wins to easily, what's placed into her lap....has no value. No time had to be invested. Easy come easy go.

Where there is no female and male polarity, there's no spark. Without a friction being created by the two gender's energies there is no atteaction. A male seeking to be tied down from the get go displays female energy. Like it or not, she picks up on this.

Women are fickle creatures and ultimately out of our control. Thus it's always better to think in the present moment with women. Meet up and have fun, enjoy the moment. Go off and live you're live and persue other women. Let her question if it's leading anywhere. If you have 10 or 15 of these meets you will be creating SOMETHING.......

.....let her attempt to put a label on it. You need this amount of time to determine if she would be WORTH anything further.

A LTR where she believes that it's HER idea and she's had to work to tie you down will always be more solid.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Solid advice, thanks for this. I lost my composure with a girl I used to talk to and blew it because I wanted something serious too soon. Lesson learned!
 
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