"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Even Feminist want guys to pay on first date

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Article: https://www.thestar.com/amp/life/20...ven-feminists-are-split-on-this-question.html

If you read the article. You'll see 6 reasons women consider a first date "good" .

Women consider a first date "or man interested behaviour' has paying full on first date.

While Men consider " women are interested" if they Split bills.

Lol.

Good article, stuff to consider on "what makes a good date"
Aside from the article subject, I think the most important quote hidden in this article is this :

“What, how and when to do things should be based on what each person feels is most true to them.”

And in essence, The best game - is not having a game.
Just do what's feels right for you at a given moment. It will put you in a place way above anyone else who plays by the rules. be authentic, original, dare to be deferent.
To be able to do so, you have to live with an abundant and outcome-free mindset, which is a great liberating place to be, a place which anyone should strive to be.
 
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Aside from the article subject, I think the most important quote hidden in this article is this :

“What, how and when to do things should be based on what each person feels is most true to them.”

And in essence, The best game - is not having a game.
Just do what's feels right for you at a given moment. It will put you in a place way above anyone else who plays by the rules. be authentic, original, dare to be deferent.
To be able to do so, you have to live with an abundant and outcome-free mindset, which is a great liberating place to be, a place which anyone should strive to be.
Yes i agree.

Tonight i went out... So many hot girls but looking so young at 18 years old.

I was at this bar... Meet 4 people.... Socialized alot, the girl was all over me for a while. Until she asked me if i had Coke (cocaine).. My answer killed "her" vibe'.

Anyway, staring at all the hotties, make friend with strangers...i had no sexual désire (probably cause i am in a LTR) but definitely knew i had abondance and could chat with anyone
 
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