"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Even fatties can get some

slitherjef

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A couple days ago while at work, I was kind of down (been trying to keep a more positive attitude) but saw something that really got to me. A really fat chick, like twice my size, probably 300 pounds, had an okay face, but had like 2-3 kids. Whisky Tango Foxtrot!? This kind of made me upset. I now I am not slim shady or anything, I got a gut (trying to eat better to help remedy this) and I am like, "is this a double standard or what!?" So I was kind of down about this. That fat chick is getting more play then I am and she is double my size.

The next day, however, I had a thought cross my mind. I may have a gut, but I have standards. Younger then I am. tight, perky tits, nice skin, tight ass, not rail thin, or anorexic. Someone that would look great bent over a table. Yeah, high standards. But I am not getting any from my high standards.

And these fatties are getting laid. And having kids. Hell, I swear I work in a baby factory or something but that is beside the point.

The thought occurred to me that, sure, they may be getting d**k, but looks like the d**k has settled. Could not do any better. Sold themselves short. I kind of smirked to my self and thought, quality, not quantity.

I may be an unattractive spare tire having AFC thats not getting any, but at least I have standards. I rather get shot down by a 10 then a 2. At least Im not devaluing myself by settling.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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slitherjef

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I never said I expected to get a hottie. I can't. Im ugly, unattractive and repulsive.
 

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fatties get one night stands.
i have never had a friend that has had a fat GF..but if we are talking banged a fat chick then thats another story(drunk story)
 

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A fat woman is that. A woman. She has a pu$$y.

A lot of guys have become desperate because of the price of pu$$y, and it keeps getting higher. As such, a lot of guys have dropped their standards and have in their minds "pu$$y has no face. I'd be fine as long as I have ONE woman. Any love is better than no love."

Women hold the sex card always. Men hold the relationship card. It's not equal.
Why? All women can get sex as quick as ordering a pizza. There are always guys going for them, regardless of age, income, size, etc. Most guys couldn't get a relationship within 2 weeks of reading this.

All women have options. Do likewise.

Case closed.
 

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You can do either 2 things to get some:

1. Step up your game
2. Turn into a tranny.

Your choice.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Masculinity

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slitherjef said:
I got a gut (trying to eat better to help remedy this).


Don't try to eat better, actually EAT better and go to the gym regularly. It won't happen overnight, but it is worth many times the pain in the gym.

But I am not getting any from my high standards.

Because those chicks have standards that you do not meet.

I may be an unattractive spare tire having AFC thats not getting any, but at least I have standards. I rather get shot down by a 10 then a 2. At least Im not devaluing myself by settling.
This is difficult to admit, good for you. Now get your stuff done and make yourself a higher rating. This is a good realization. Just, don't let it get the negative side of you. Instead, turn it into the fire that will propel your workout and success.

Good stuff: +1 rep
 

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By the way, going to the gym isn't the only way of losing weight, some people (including me) find it quite boring.

You could do dancing (solo or partner dance, many different kinds), racket sports (squash, tennis badminton), field sports (soccer, football, rugby, la cross)....there are loads of options, find something you really enjoy so it's not a massive chore and it will be much easier.

It's never too late to be who you might have been.
 

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nismo-4 said:
A fat woman is that. A woman. She has a pu$$y.

A lot of guys have become desperate because of the price of pu$$y, and it keeps getting higher. As such, a lot of guys have dropped their standards and have in their minds "pu$$y has no face. I'd be fine as long as I have ONE woman. Any love is better than no love."

Women hold the sex card always. Men hold the relationship card. It's not equal.
Why? All women can get sex as quick as ordering a pizza. There are always guys going for them, regardless of age, income, size, etc. Most guys couldn't get a relationship within 2 weeks of reading this.

All women have options. Do likewise.

Case closed.
i reallt agre with you nismo.

a lot of friends telling me that line that always make me upset about the male race 'a hole is a hole and a d!ck dont have eyes'
that mean as long as she got pvssy my d!ck is fine even if i fvck a fattie.

as you said, OP, be a man with standards !
 
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