"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Even been turned on by an "ugly" girl?

S-lemond

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Originally posted by skeeloo
sometimes i gotta admit... fat girls turn me on.
hahahaahahahahaahahaha
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pimpfromdayone

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No fat girls for me, hel-l no. I'm not sure about the whole "I am attracted to uglier girls just because my self-esteem is low" but I myself favor the short, "cute" type, over the supermodel kind. Nothing to do with self-esteem. I have been in battle with those "10s," and they are nothing special, just something pretty to look at.
 

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im totally one of those guys who is attracted to special chicks. No, not retarded ones..

special as in they have something very sexy/special about them. I would take a classy/stylish/sassy HB8 over a plain and boring HB9.5 any day. Is that crazy? :confused:

its all in the way a girl walks, talks, carries herself, what kinda shoes she wears, etc..

oh, and most important.

Grace, Class, and Mystery.

Like to me, the hottest woman in the world is Monica Bellucci. Now she is like 42, curvy, etc. No sixpack, no perky 20yo boobies. But to me she is like the hottest thing alive because she is classy, graceful, mysterious.

a walking, breathing work of art. thats what a real woman is. And art is unique, specific, not always pretty from every angle, etc. But it inspires you, enchants you, makes you feel like nothing else can.

hope that makes sense.

uhm, what the hell was the point of this whole thing again? I forgot.
 

Capitol39

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I think a lot of it has to do with self esteem.

I've noticed my AFC friends only want to get with the HB8 and HB9. Needless to say, they never get these women.

There are two kinds of attraction. One is an "intellectual" attraction: You see a chick with long legs, large breasts, and model-like face, and because you have been socialized to accept that as the apex of beauty, you feel some attraction. Don't get me wrong, it's not that I don't find long legs attractive, but the HB9 and HB10 are more symbolic to me (and many other guys). It's almost like they're trophies. They're great for bolstering low self esteem, but they're like dolls. They don't exude sexuality. When you get them in bed some of them are pretty damn asexual, to tell you the truth (yes, there are always exceptions).

Now the HB6 and HB7, on the other hand turn me on sexually. They're more "womanly". They're more real. It's not like I'm settling for a HB7--I *prefer* a HB7. My poor AFC friends, chasing those Barbie dolls, are missing out on a lot of great sex and good times.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scrumtulescence

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Yeah sometimes, if the girl has a mediocre face but knows how to flirt well and is seductive....or if a girl is a little chunky but has an extremely cute face.
 

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God created no ugly women!

Some don't appeal to my personal tastes but there are no inherently ugly women.
 

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In college, I used to work as a tutor for middle school children. One of the coordinators was also a fellow classmate of mine. I never noticed her at all because I didn't think her face was all that great. But one day, all she had to do was turn around and I noticed how shapely her hips were and I instantly fell in love. What an a$$. After that, I would always ogle her. Too bad she wanted nothing to do with me :-(
 

pimpfromdayone

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Yeah, you gotta watch those crazy ass middle school ho-es, they'll suck yo dic-k in a heartbeat.
 
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